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Act of Random Kindness

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Yesterday the kids and I went to see Evan Almighty. I went with some trepidation as I had heard it wasn't that great and then there is the fact that sequels are often less than enjoyable. We had loved the movie Bruce Almighty and the Christian message that it presented. We like Steve Carell and we love animals, so we decided to give it a shot (though I was wondering how there could be a flood when God promised never again).

Well, we loved the movie. Not only did the event of the flood work, but the underlying message of "a random act of kindness" as well as the message to take care of our world made the movie fantastic! We loved the quips, the animals, and the fact that afterward, we talked about how we can do little things that make the world a brigther place. Indeed to change the whole world, we need to start with one little act at a time. And if we all do it, imagine what a great world it would be. Another movie example of this is Pay It Forward. This movie has been the springboard of the Pay It Forward Foundation and The Pay It Forward Movement.

A couple of years ago, i was the recipient of an Act of Random Kindness. My daughter and I were in the restroom and Sam's and she was asking if I was going to get a hotdog too. I told her not today as I only had enough money to get her a hot dog (she loves Sam's hotdogs), but that was okay as I wasn't really hungry. When we went to the sink to wash our hands, a lady stepped up to us. She said she couldn't help but overhear our conversation. She said she prayed daily for God to place people in her path that she could help. Today it was going to be us. She handed me 2.00 and told me to enjoy a hotdog with my daughter. Neither of us will ever forget that.

Now, I am not going to say that I have commited an act of kindness every day since. But I try to do them often. They can be things like

1. letting a person out in front of me in a line of traffic
2. letting a person with two items get ahead of me in line at the store
3. saying thank you to the cashier and calling them by name
4. not honking the horn or gesturing when someone pulls out in front of me (sometimes I have done this unwittingly and I try to give people the benefit of the doubt)
5. surprising someone with a phone call or a card or a visit
6. making a cake for a neighbor just because
7. leaving groceries at someone in need's doorstep
8. send someone an anonymous pair of tickets in the mail
9. smile at your family members
10. set a special table at home (fine dishes even if an ordinary meal)

These are just a few simple things we can do, just imagine what the world would be like if all of us focused more on doing for others instead of what we can get done for ourselves!

I would love to hear your Random Acts of Kindness!

5 Comments
sherry said:

Great post Melissa!

We absolutely loved Evan Almighty too! It was wonderful.

I try to do each and every thing that is on your list as well! I haven't done the last yet -- as we are very, very bad about eating dinner as a family. Probably only twice a week. I need to work on that!

Sherry

August 21, 2007 7:39 PM
chickadee said:

i think that's great. i heard my pastor talking about this movie and how much they liked it this weekend. and don't forget, sending me a cd of recipes. that counts.

i try to do that too and all those things you mentioned, i have done. i could do more though.

August 21, 2007 9:51 PM
Melissa said:

Sherry,

I have to say, I haven't done the last one either. We are very bad about eating together as a family. After spending our days together homeschooling, that has become break time where we go our separate ways. But I recently read it on another post and thought it was a great idea. There are so many ways we can show kindness to others and we need to remember that can start at home:)

Glad you liked the post!

And Chickadee... I just saw your comment. I don't think any of us ever do enough, but maybe if we write about it, talk about it and think about it amongst ourselves, we will get better at it:) Thanks too for reminding me that sending the CD of recipes was a random act of kindness.

August 21, 2007 10:32 PM

Good Morning Melissa!

Great post! We eat all of our meals at the dining room table as a family... with the exception of breakfast and dinner (lunch) because hubby is at work.

August 23, 2007 10:22 AM
Tiany said:

Melissa,
I loved this post! This was such a wonderful reminder, thanks so much for sharing! I cant wait to see that movie now too :-)

August 24, 2007 10:41 PM

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