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January 31, 2008

Studies Have Found Wild Birds That Are Resistant to Low Level Antibiotics

According to National Geographic, microbes that are immune to commonly used drugs have been found inside birds living in some of Earth's most remote regions, scientists say. The research suggests that antibiotic resistance has spread deep into nature—and humans are likely to blame.

The researchers sampled waste from 97 birds belonging to a dozen different species from the Arctic tundra of northeastern Siberia, northern Alaska, and northern Greenland.

Eight birds—including sandpipers, geese, and gulls—carried Escherichia coli bacteria that was resistant to one or more commonly prescribed antibiotics.


"Many of these antibiotics are used at hospitals against severe infections such as pneumonia, urinary tract infections, or septicemia [blood poisoning]," Olsen said.

Only a fraction of the Arctic birds sampled carried drug-resistant bacteria. If the immunity had developed naturally, the researchers noted, more birds should have carried the resistant strain.

The researchers speculate that the birds contracted drug-resistant E. coli from contact with human sewage or waste in lower latitudes before migrating north.

Infected birds could spread resistant bacteria to other animals or—in rare cases—even back to humans as the birds migrate around the world, Olsen said.

I never thought about the fact that our antibiotic resistance could be passed on to animals. But it does only makes sense, since throughout history we have received germs from with the animal kingdom (the Black Death, the Avian Flu, Smallpox...) It only makes sense that the corridor is two ways.

January 30, 2008

Global Warming May Reduce Hurricane Landfalls...

WHAT! Weren't the scientists just saying that global warming would make us have worse hurricanes? I know we need to be better to our planet! But to me, this article is just another example of how much we really don't know about the forces that are at work in our own environment! Scientists sometimes lead us to believe that they have it all figured out, but in reality, they are doing the best they can with what information they have.

My husband and I often discuss the question of how does anyone know what the proper temperature for the planet is? We know what temperatures we are used to and expect, but are those the 'proper temperatures'? I don't know and I don't think anyone else really does either.

At any rate, check out National Geographic for what the latest studes are showing about hurricanes and how globabl warming can be expected to influence them.

January 29, 2008

Multi-tasking and Movies

I have been very busy today...I have clicked, clicked and clicked some more (see previous post). I have actually made my way through all of the contests that were listed as of this evening. I repeat my kids are fed and the laundry is done and the homeschooling has been completed!

As I clicked, I also spent time watching movies and working on a baby blanket. I have gotten at least 15 more rows done on the baby blanket I am working on. I'll take a picture of it once it is done.

And I have seen three good movies!

The Education of Little Tree - this is an excellent movie about a Native American youngster growing up in the early 19th century. I highly recommend this film!

The Snow Walker - This is a fantastic movie. In the best stories the characters complete an arc. And in this movie, the main character completes an arc in a very believable way! I really enjoyed it and think you will too!

Now I am watching the Florida primary results. No big surprises there.

Hope all of you are well and their your fingers are doing well and your children are fed!

I Think I Am Coming Down With Something...

My eyes are blurry, my head is throbbing, my fingers are shaking...

What?

You recognize these symptoms?

It's not the flu???

It's because I have been spending every spare moment over at the Bloggy Giveaways Carnival?

Goodness me...I should have realized! Well at least the children are fed. And the laundry is done. And I have blogged a little and read my favorite blogs and even worked on the baby blanket some...so I haven't spent all of my time on my computer...

I am up to number 400. I haven't entered all 400, only the ones that looked like something my family could use. Only another 250 to go at last count...I can do it, I know I can!)

Anyone else feeling shaky? Having fun? Ready to never look at another contest again (NAH!)

Time to get back at it!

And just in case you missed it, I have 7 giveaways myself right now! Go to my main page, scroll down just a little until you see contests on my right sidebar and enter, enter, enter!

Have fun!

Homeschool Carnival Is Up!

I know this is a busy week for many of us, but I still encourage you to take some time and visit this week's Homeschool Carnival hosted by Life on the Road.

The theme of this week's carnival is "Leaving a Legacy", and let me tell you, there are several gems in this week's carnival. Be sure to go take a look see!

Tagged for the Viral Linking Meme

Just in case you haven't figure it out, memes are kind of cool. I know there are blogs that don't do them, but I do them for two reasons. One, somedays they are the only blogging material I have and two, they are a great way to share linky love! And let's face it, linky love really does help the bloggy world go around!

So here goes: Laura at Laura Williams Musings tagged me for this viral linking meme.

Rule #1: Copy all the links below and replace a single link under the appropriate letter of the alphabet that corresponds to your domain name, or even the title of your blog. So if your blog name starts with "A” you’d replace the link under that letter and put the replaced link at the bottom. Also, don’t forget to change the "Tagged By" link below, or where you got the list from, at the end of the list with a full URL of the post so that a pingback gets generated.


A. An Ordinary Life
B. bloggingcents.com
C. http://caffeine-overload.com
D. DadThing.com
E. everythingandanythingblog.com
F. forumfinder.net
G. GeekMomMashup.com
H. happykeg.com
I. ipentimento.com
J. juliesjournal.com
K. kabalyero.com
L. laurawilliamsmusings.blogspot.com
M. www.melissaomarkham.com
N. notjustmama.net
O. originalmx5.net
P. peapodsquadstuff.com
Q. qweddings.com
R. rowdigrl.com
S. shirleysdelight.com
T. thesocalledme.net
U. utada-online.net
V. valmg.com
W. wickedbabylon.com
X. xaviermedia.com
Y. yimto.com
Z. zbudapest.com


Replaced link: michaelpark.net

Tagged by: Laura Williams Musings

Now, I am supposed to tag five people, but there are many who don't do memes and I would prefer to not fret them and to leave this open for anyone who truly wants to do this sort of thing.

So, if you would like to carry this on, feel free! Have a great day!

January 28, 2008

Book Review and 3 To Giveaway! Reluctant Smuggler by Jill Elizabeth Nelson

Welcome to Bloggy Giveways! This week, hundreds of people will be posting giveaways over at Shannon's Giveaway blog and hundreds upon hundreds, dare I say thousands will visit! Have fun!

Reluctant Smuggler by Jill Elizabeth Nelson is the third book in a series To Catch a Thief. This book is a story of adventure, archaeology, love, constant action, exotic locations and intrigue. I have not read the previous two books in this series, but this fast-paced novel stands very well on its own.

Desiree Jacobs runs a company that provides security to high profile locations (like antiquity museums). Her fiance, Tony Lucano is a FBI agent who loves his job. The two have plans to be married, but their jobs and the intrigue they constantly find themselves in makes it hard to plan a wedding. Desiree is a strong heroine. No wimpy girl here. She is smart, persistent and courageous. Tony loves this woman completely, though he does worry about her safety. This story winds its way through Mexico City, the Yucatan, Cancun, Boston, and New York. There are multiple stories on and this fast paced tale will grab you early on and keep you reading to the very end. Everytime I put it down, I found myself picking it up again to see what was going to happen next.

And one of these three copies can be yours for the small investment of a comment below. Yep, all you have to do is leave me a comment and live in the United States. If you live outside of the states, you are welcome to pay the postage if you would like to try winning this item. I will have my drawing on February 6th at 6 pm. If you want a second chance, be sure to blog about the contest and let me know that you have shared the information with others. Good luck!

Book Review and Giveaway: Awaken My Heart by DiAnn Mills

I love historical romantic fiction. I enjoy a book that transports me to a different time, where the characters bring to life a time that I don't know much about and make me feel as though I am there. DiAnn Mills has written such a book: "Awaken My Heart". This book takes place at the turn of the 1800s in the colony of Texas. There are handsome vacqueros and beautiful senoritas. The story was captivating. One of the things i liked about it the most was how DiAnn used her heroine, Marianne Phillips, to share with the reader how simple faith can be. And she used Marianne to show the reader what it means to trust in God, how to witness to others, and how to live a prayerful life.

Let me share some Q and A with DiAnn Mills to give you some insight into this writer.

Q. Did you always want to be a writer, or is it something you fell into in your adult life?

A. Always. As soon as I could hold a pencil. My mind was always filled with some kind of story. As a child, I was punished for lying, now I get paid for it!

Q. Your love of Texas history is displayed throughout the book, especially since it takes place in 19th century Texas. Why do you think this would appeal to your readers?

A. Texas is known for it's rugged and courageour people. The folk lore and legends could fill volumes - and has. Those people who were not born here got here as fast as they could. The good people are the best, and the outlaws were the worst. That makes for grand stories. Awaken My Heart shows the beginnings of Texas from a Spanish and Mexican perspective. Where would this state e if not for those who stood up to tyranny?

Q. Marianne is in love with Armando Garcia, her father's arch enemy. How is Marianne able to suppress her feelings for Armando around her family?

A. Marianne understood that above all things, she should obey her parents. Outwardly, she respected their wishes, but in her heart, she could not deny her growing feelings for Armando.

Q. Weston Phillips is a hard man to understand, perhaps an even harder man for his wife and daugther to love. Do you have people like him in your life?

A. All of us have unlovable people in our lives. Sometimes we attempt to be indifferent or ignore them, but it doesn't change the way that person hurts us.

Q. Armando is confused by his feelings for Marianne. He feels like his heart has betrayed him. How does his past drive those feelings? Do you understand his hesitation?

A. Armando's parents were involved in a forbidden relationship -- his father a member of Spanish aristocracy and his mother a peasant. When it appeared that Armando's father had deserted his mother and son, Armando despised him. Now Armando has fallen into the same trap - forbidden love. He doesn't want to experience the same rejection again, but his heart is more powerful than his logic. He egins to understand the powerful force of love between two people.

Q. Armando and Marianne admit their love, but social and political environment of the day frowned on their relationship. Forbidden love often pulls two people together, but what does God say is the foundation for His gift of love?

A. The foundation for God's gift of love is rooted in His Son Jesus Christ. Those who have put their faith and trust in Him understand that all are equal in the eyes of God.

A lot of times I will read an inspirational romance and the mentions of God seem a bit forced, but in DiAnn's book, the references are believable and appropriate. I highly recommend this book which goes on sale on February 5th. But you can try winning your very own copy here! Just comment below and I will have a random drawing on February 6th at 6 pm. This is welcome to U.S. citizens only, but if you are overseas and would like a chance, all you have to do is pay the postage if you win.

Chit, Chat and Chew Cookies - A Yummy Giveaway!

Welcome to Bloggy Giveways! This week, hundreds of people will be posting giveaways over at Shannon's Giveaway blog and hundreds upon hundreds, dare I say thousands will visit! Have fun!

A couple of months ago, I was fortunate enough to win a 3 pound package of yummy Chit, Chat and Chew chocolate chip cookies. These cookies are melt in your mouth awesome! And they are worth the money you are paying for them, just for their tasty goodness, but there's more! Chit, Chat, and Chew cookies have an additional attraction. They come with cards that are designed to get your family talking.

Now I know that that isn't always a stumbling block for families (and for you, I repeat, these cookies are delicious!). But if you have kids that are finding spending time with their videos games, listening to their iPods, or watching TV more interesting that chatting with you, these cards may be a way to break the ice. With fun, non-confrontive questions, your children and you can learn more about one another and enjoy those yummy cookies (did I mention yet how yummy they are?)

Another wonderful use of these cookies is that they can be sold as a profitable fundraiser. Chit and Chat Enterprises will split the cost of the items with you 50/50. So if the product is 20.00, you get 10.00 and the company gets 10.00 for each kit you sell. That's a good deal!

And if cookies aren't your thing, they have some new products coming soon.

Now for the good part you are waiting for...Chit Chat Brands is offering a mixed cookie kit to one lucky, random commenter here on my blog. You will get Chocolate Chip, Peanut Butter and Oatmeal cookies! Just go visit Chit Chat Brands and come back and let me know one other type of cookie mix they sell.

This prize is availalbe to United States Addresses only. I will make my random drawing on February 6th at 6 pm. Good luck!

Etsy Giveaway Courtesy of ZudaGay

Welcome to Bloggy Giveways! This week, hundreds of people will be posting giveaways over at Shannon's Giveaway blog and hundreds upon hundreds, dare I say thousands will visit! Have fun!


A month or so ago I signed up for a contest to win a lovely piece of jewelry from ZudaGay. I didn't get picked by the random number generator, but I had bookmarked her website as I wanted to return and buy one of her many beautiful products. Well on the 15th, I purchased two of the items I had my eye on. Mainly because her jewelry is one of a kind stuff and I didn't want to take any more chances or someone else buying the pieces I wanted!

I got a beautiful rose cross pendant and another pendant which has been calling to me. I love flowers and so does ZudaGay.

And they arrived so quickly! I purchased them on Thursday and they arrived on Tuesday (and Monday was a holiday). They were packed very well and in the box was a sweet surprise...a lovely heart that Zuda Gay had made! See how beautiful they all look? (My camera really doesn't do them justice).

Zuda has been working with Polymer clay for around twelve years or so. She has always enjoyed being creative no matter what the medium. She is a proud member of the Polymer Clay Artists Guild Of Etsy, Etsy Illinois Street Team, Boomers and Beyond Etsy Street Team and Christian Artists Street Team.

From her profile:

I am a child of the King, a wife, a mother, a grandma of six! (so far) I need to be creative in all areas of my life. Polymer clay is a wonderful medium that allows my creativity to run free. I've been working with PC for quite a while now and it still amazes me. I use primarily Premo! and Kato Polymer clays in my work. I also enjoy sewing and painting mainly decorative arts such as murials and faux painting. You may see more examples of my work at www.pbase.com/zudagay Or visit my blog, Clay in the Hands

So, I wanted to share with you how beautiful Zuda's pieces are and I asked her if she would be willing to let me offer a giveaway to someone during this big bloggy giveaway. And she agreed!!!! Isn't that cool for you!

All you have to do is go to her Etsy website, look around, and come back and tell me which piece you would like! And guess what, if I pick your name with the random numer generator, you just may get the piece you would like. Zuda is offering to let the winner pick any piece in her store for free! WOW!!!! And she will ship internationally as well as here in the states! That is so fantastic!

Good luck! The random drawing for this contest will take place on February 6th at 6 pm.

Skin MD - Review and 3 Giveaways!

Welcome to Bloggy Giveways! This week, hundreds of people will be posting giveaways over at Shannon's Giveaway blog and hundreds upon hundreds, dare I say thousands will visit! Have fun!

Do you struggle with dry skin? I do. During the winter time it is the worst. I have a couple of knuckles on my right hand that stay dry and 'scaly' no matter what I do and I have had my fingers crack open because of the dryness. That is very painful. So when I was given the chance to try a revolutionary shielding lotion called Skin MD, I was delighted.

Skin MD isn't just a moisturizing lotion, it is a shielding lotion. What does that mean, you ask? Well, it means that when you put Skin MD on, it is protecting your skin like a glove that keeps away the things that dry out your skin (water, chemicals, cold). It is also keeping in the natural moisturizers that your skin is producing. Skin MD research shows that when you use regular moisturizers that they actually trick your body into thinking your skin is moist and your body stops producing natural moisturizers. Then if you stop using the moisturizers, you can end up with drier skin than before. I have seen this happen a bunch of times myself.

The directions on Skin MD are to apply it every 2- 8 hours in the beginning and after a couple of days, Once every 12-24 hours. This is exactly how it worked for me. I put it on three or four times the first days, and I have been putting it on twice a day since. The dry spots on my knuckles are gone and that is a major thing because no other lotion has been able to get rid of them.

The directions on Skin MD are to apply it every 2- 8 hours in the beginning and after a couple of days, Once every 12-24 hours. This is exactly how it worked for me. I put it on three or four times the first days, and I have been putting it on twice a day since. The dry spots on my knuckles are gone and that is a major thing because no other lotion has been able to get rid of them. My hands feel softer. And it doesn't take very much of the lotion to obtain this affect (less than a dime size amount twice a day.)

Skin MD is hypoallergenic, non-comedogenic, paraben free, fragrance and color free. It is made of all natural ingredients. And if you try it and don't like it they have a money back guarantee.

For more information about this amazing product, check out these links:

1. Skin MD Natural Main Website

2. Skin MD Press Releases

3. Skin MD Doctore Reviews

And here is a video that will show how well Skin MD can protect your hands.

You can purchase Skin MD at Walgreen's or from the Skin MD website. Or you can try to win a sample here! I have enough lotion for three different winners! Count them! Three!

One lucky winner will win a brand new, unopened 4 oz bottle of Skin MD. Two other lucky winners will each receive 4 sample packages of Skin MD. Each contains enough lotion for 3-5 applications. All you have to do is leave a comment below. This is only open to U.S. residents unless you wish to pay for the shipping. I will choose the winners through random drawings on Saturday, February 6th at 6 pm. Good luck!


A Twisted Silver Giveaway!

Welcome to Bloggy Giveways! This week, hundreds of people will be posting giveaways over at Shannon's Giveaway blog and hundreds upon hundreds, dare I say thousands will visit! Have fun!

Have you heard of Twisted Silver Jewelry? The people at Twisted Silver are at the top of the heap when it comes to creating fantastic funky, modern jewelry! Even celebrities agree! I own a pair of their Diva Earrings and have my eye on other pieces I wish to purchase in the future. And the people at Twisted Silver give the best customer service! When I contacted Tina and told her about the Bloggy Giveaway Carnival, she was very excited about taking part and sharing an amazing piece of their jewelry with one of my readers.

So, without further ado, here it is! The Align Convertible Necklace.

The Align Convertible necklace is made of brass and copper, and this piece can be worn as a double-wrapped necklace (as shown), or as a long and lean necklace, as a belt, or as a super-funky multi-wrap bracelet! It's value $100.

Isn't that awesome!? And that's not all! Tina is offering a 20% discount to anyone who purchases 100.00 or more worth of jewelry from Twisted Silver between January 28th - February 15th! Isn't that cool? Especially with Valentine's Day coming up? (HINT, HINT HUBBIES and BOYFRIENDS!!!) All you have to do to receive your 20% discount is purchase $100.00 or more worth of jewelry from Twisted Silver and type in CARNIVAL (all caps) as your coupon code when ordering. And for ordering $100.00 or more worth of jewelry, you get free shipping too! (U.S. Only). How cool is that!!???

So, now that you are excited about the chance to win the Align Convertible necklace and about the great discount and free shipping, you are obviously wondering what do you do to win! It's simple. Go visit Twisted Silver and come back and tell me what piece(s) you would like to get (remember Valentine's Day is coming and you never know who might be reading your answer. The drawing will be on February 6th at 6 pm. Good luck!

MotherTalk Blog Tour: The Natural Superwoman by Uzzi Reiss

The Natural Superwoman by Uzzi Reiss, M.D., OB/GYN and Yfat Reiss Gendell contains a scientifically backed program for feeling great, looking younger, and enjoy amazing energy at any age! Does this sound like something that you could use? Well then read on.

We live in a world where more and more is required of both men and women. As women, we are often expected or have to have a career and we are to balance that with parenthood, relationship needs, taking care of ourselves, and the running of a household. And as we know those five categories may look simple when spoken of in general terms, but they break down into hundreds and thousands of actions that keep us hopping from the time we get up in the morning until the time we go to sleep at night. We have more and more conveniences at our fingertips, but we are more and more busy. For most of us, long gone are the hours spent visiting friends and family and just 'sitting around on the porch swing.' Life is just too busy for that kind of relaxation. And this leads us to how this book can help.

With all of these expectations on us, we can use help for having the energy to help us meet the challenges of the 21st century using natural hormones.

In The Natural Superwoman, Uzzi Reiss and his daughter, Yfat Reiss Gendell, provides the most up-to-date research available on the amazing benefits of bioidentical hormones along with nutritional and fitness advice. It is a complete program that will help women everywhere start feeling energized, focused and ready to take on the world. This is their opportunity to feel young and vibrant again - in a healthy, natural way.

The Natural Superwoman is the new natural health bible for women. By raking through the muck of controversy and years of scientific studies, Dr. Reiss has written an honest and demystifying book on women's health today. The Natural Superwoman tells the real story hormones (their benefits and risks) as well how they can be integrated into any woman's life - regardless of age or budget. This combined with solid nutrition, fitness and emotional advice gives women a complete picture of how to achieve their ideal health and well and wellness goals.

By first explaining the difference between the hormones used in HRT and biomedical hormones, Natural Superwoman lays a foundation for natural hormone supplements. For each of the following hormones Dr. Reiss states why the hormone is essential and describes the benefits and potential side effects associated with their use, as well as specifics on doses:

  • Estrogen
  • Progesterone
  • Human Growth
  • DHEA
  • Pregnenolone
  • Testosterone

From enhancing sexuality to healing dry skin and increasing energy and vitality, hormones are an overlooked and underutilized way of healing the body. In The Natural Superwoman, Dr. Reiss dispels tha many myths surrounding HRT using the latest scientific evidence that explains the incredible benefits of bioidentical hormones.

To learn more about Uzzi Reiss, check out these links:

Uzzi Reiss' Website

CBS's interview with Uzzi Reiss

You can purchase The Natural Superwoman by Uzzi Reiss from Amazon.

My Two Cents: Due to a glitch in shipping, I didn't get to read all of this book prior to participating in the blog tour. But I dipped in and out and read a few passages. This book is very readable (so many self-help books seem to be full of science babble and are hard to read). There is a huge amount of information in this book, one passage in particular hit me between the eyes. It talks about 'cheating', something most of us do on diets and exercise plans either often or infrequently. It compares this to cheating on a spouse. It suggests we should have treat our bodies the way we do our relationships where cheating and betrayal would not be tolerated. I have never thought of that before. As a person who has struggled with weight all my life, I have found myself eating in solitude...after all, that way, others can't judge me. But the only person I am cheating is myself. If I could only keep that foremost in my mind. I look forward to reading more of this book and working on becoming A Natural Superwoman!

January 27, 2008

Thinking a Little About Warmer Weather

Even though those of us who live in the Northern Hemisphere are deeply in the grip of winter, that doesn't mean we can't think about the joys of spring and summer that are coming ahead. I love spring. I love to watch the buds open up and that special green of trees when their leaves first start to grow before it deepens into the dark green of summer. I enjoy sitting on our new patio furniture and watching the birds fly hither and yon as they build their nests and mate. We often do school work out on the deck at the picnic table when the weather begins to warm. The sunshine makes us all feel good, though it makes it hard to concentrate on school work sometimes! Then there are the nature walks as we watch the world come back to life around us and thoughts that turn toward the summer months and time spent in the pool. Sounds like a Country Time Lemonade commercial!

Bloggers Care...

There are a lot of different types of blogs in the world. Some people write merely to see their thoughts in print. Others write so that their descendants will have a picture of them, their life and what was important to them. Some write so they can share their opinions and their knowledge. Some people simply write and don't connect with others. But the blogs that I frequent are of the sort where people reach out to others. They freely share of their experiences, their tips, their love and their encouragement. To me this is one of the greatest features of the blogger world.

In the last three years of my blogging experience, I have seen people pray for people they don't know beyond their words they have read. I have seen people get together and do everything from set up virtual baby showers for strangers to raising money to help pay for medical bills. I have read of bloggers leaving the comfort of their homes to head to foreign countries to share with the rest of us what is going on there. I have seen many, many times where moms are struggling with issues ranging from parenting to depression to career decisions and I have watched as others come forth and share what has worked for them.

Last week, Jen at My Three Boys and I was kind enough to give several of her readers two awards for their encouragement of her.

I wish to bestow these awards on all of my readers! You have encouraged me, taught me, shared with me, and made it a pleasure to blog on a regular basis. Thank you and may God Bless you for the joy and love you spread around the world with your words and kindnesses!

Memory Foam Mattresses

My hubby recently heard from two of his co-workers about how they are getting the best night sleep they haved ever received from a memory foam mattress. Now he is interested in checking it out. I ran across the BedinaBox website that offers 120 day trial for you (if you are not satisfied after sleeping on the mattress, you may return it during the 120 day time period and all you have to do is pay shipping. And because it is foam, they can bend it all up and ship it to you in a box! Doesn't that just seem bizarre! But the people that Daniel works with swear that they will never go back to other types of mattresses and that they are sleeping better than ever before.

The prices are higher than the coil/spring mattresses most of us have, but when you think about how much time you spend in your bed (probably an average of 8 hours a day), shouldn't it be one of the more expensive items in your home?

As we continue to ponder whether or not we want to try out the memory foam mattress, I would love to hear from any of my readers that have one and know what you think of it! Thanks!

January 26, 2008

Heath Ledger - The Media Shame

I know most, if not all of us were astounded to learn of Heath Ledger's passing this week. His wasn't a name I ever heard link with drugs or other types of misbehavior so prevalent among today's stars.

I haven't seen all of Mr. Ledger's films. Of those I did see, his part in 10 Things I Hate About You was probably my favorite. It was a neat role and he was a handsome leading man with a lot of charisma.

I was shocked and saddened when I heard that his life had been cut so drastically short and I can only imagine the pain that his family and loved ones are experiencing.

I am angry with the media. The media has gotten to the point where they rush to the scene, jump to conclusions and make ridiculous statements all in the name of 'journalism'. If I were part of Mr. Ledger's family, I would be seriously considering lawsuits.

In case you aren't aware, the initial autopsy results came back inconclusive. It will be a couple of more weeks before forensic pathologists will be able to tell us what the cause of death was. Yet, all the newscasters keep dropping the 'overdose' word. Even there is an equal problem that there was a drug interaction problem.

The night of his death, I watched as newscasters were ferreting out so-called anonymous friends who talked of the dark place Heath was and how concerned they were about him. Yet, the next day, friends were making different statements. Does a man who is contemplating suicide set up an appointment with a masseuse? He was snoring at 1 pm when his maid found him asleep in his apartment. So we really don't know what happened. Can't the media simply wait until the results are in. As a fan of Mr. Ledger's, I am content to wait for the facts and prefer not to get swept up in the speculations. And wouldn't it be more appropriate to hold off speaking on what no one knows the truth of, not only for the sake of truth but for the sake of the family and friends who are dealing with their loss.

Today, I heard another news person commenting on how twisted it was that the masseuse called Heath's friend when she first found him to be unresponsive instead of calling 9-1-1. Now, let's think about the big picture here...at first the masseuse didn't realize he was dead. She thought he was simply unresponsive. If she had called paramedics, it would have been all over the news and speculation would have run rampant. Perhaps her first thought was to help him without the media attention. As soon as she realized the true nature of the situation she was dealing with, she immediatelly called 9-1-1.

We have become possessive of our stars. We feel like we own them and their lives. We feel like we are privy to every little bit of information about their lives. I proclaim, that this is not the case. Just because they are actors and actresses, people who spend their lives entertaining us, doesn't mean we own them or that we need to know every little piece of their lives.

I hope the media will step back, shut up and wait until they have news to report, not innuendos and suppositions!

Yesterday's Nature Group Meeting

We had another fun group meeting yesterday with some fun projects.

We made an air pressure gauge, a rain gauge and a bird feeder.


The rain gauge was straight forward, a plastic tube, which we marked at 1 inch intervals, then we taped on a popsicle stick to help hold it upright in the ground.

The air pressure gauge was a wide mouth jar with a balloon wrapped tightly over the top (tight enough to bounce a penny on), then wrap a rubber band around it to help hold it in place. To get the balloon to wrap over the top, cut off the neck of the balloon. We did some other stuff with a straw and then you put a board behind it to mark when pressure was up and down (the straw moves up and down), but it was a bit complicated and we were told to use crazy glue and it stuck mostly to our fingers. I think, just putting the balloon over the top is enough. It was neat to see it go up when we were inside a nice warm room and be sucked into the jar when it was cold out.

My most favorite was the bird feeders. Take a toilet paper holder. Use a hole punch to punch two holes on one end that you can run a string through to hang the hanger from. Then take a knife and pierce both sides of the tube on the other end. Later on you can push a popsicle holder through and it will act like a perch. Pour honey onto a plate (or you can use peanut butter), roll the tube into the honey, getting it nice and sticky. Then roll the tube into bird seed...let it get cold so the honey crystallizes. Insert string and popsicle stick, hang up and watch the birds come in flocks!

Saturday Chuckles - Ponderisms

I received this in my email box today and it was so funny, I just had to share! Enjoy!

Ponderisms

CAN YOU CRY UNDER WATER?


HOW IMPORTANT DOES A PERSON HAVE TO BE BEFORE THEY ARE CONSIDERED ASSASSINATED INSTEAD OF JUST MURDERED?

WHY DO YOU HAVE TO "PUT YOUR TWO CENTS IN".. BUT IT'S ONLY A "PENNY FOR YOUR THOUGHTS"? WHERE'S THAT EXTRA PENNY GOING TO?


ONCE YOU'RE IN HEAVEN, DO YOU GET STUCK WEARING THE CLOTHES YOU WERE BURIED IN FOR ETERNITY?

WHY DOES A ROUND PIZZA COME IN A SQUARE BOX?


WHAT DISEASE DID CURED HAM ACTUALLY HAVE?


HOW IS IT THAT WE PUT MAN ON THE MOON BEFORE WE FIGURED OUT IT WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA TO PUT WHEELS ON LUGGAGE?

WHY IS IT THAT PEOPLE SAY THEY "SLEPT LIKE A BABY" WHEN BABIES WAKE UP LIKE EVERY TWO HOURS?


IF A DEAF PERSON HAS TO GO TO COURT, IS IT STILL CALLED A HEARING?

WHY ARE YOU IN A MOVIE, BUT YOU'RE ON TV?


WHY DO PEOPLE PAY TO GO UP TALL BUILDINGS AND THEN PUT MONEY IN BINOCULARS TO LOOK AT THINGS ON THE GROUND?


WHY DO DOCTORS LEAVE THE ROOM WHILE YOU CHANGE? THEY'RE GOING TO SEE YOU NAKED ANYWAY.


WHY IS "BRA" SINGULAR AND "PANTIES" PLURAL?

WHY DO TOASTERS ALWAYS HAVE A SETTING THAT BURNS THE TOAST TO A HORRIBLE CRISP, WHICH NO DECENT HUMAN BEING WOULD EAT?

IF JIMMY CRACKS CORN AND NO ONE CARES, WHY IS THERE A STUPID SONG ABOUT HIM?


CAN A HEARSE CARRYING A CORPSE DRIVE IN THE CARPOOL LANE ?

IF THE PROFESSOR ON GILLIGAN'S ISLAND CAN MAKE A RADIO OUT OF A COCONUT, WHY CAN'T HE FIX A HOLE IN A BOAT?


WHY DOES GOOFY STAND ERECT WHILE PLUTO REMAINS ON ALL FOURS? THEY'RE BOTH DOGS!

IF WILE E. COYOTE HAD ENOUGH MONEY TO BUY ALL THAT ACME CRAP, WHY DIDN'T HE JUST BUY DINNER?


IF CORN OIL IS MADE FROM CORN, AND VEGETABLE OIL IS MADE FROM VEGETABLES, WHAT IS BABY OIL MADE FROM?


IF ELECTRICITY COMES FROM ELECTRONS, DOES MORALITY COME FROM MORONS?

DO THE ALPHABET SONG AND TWINKLE, TWINKLE LITTLE STAR HAVE THE SAME TUNE?


WHY DID YOU JUST TRY SINGING THE TWO SONGS ABOVE?

DID YOU EVER NOTICE THAT WHEN YOU BLOW IN A DOG'S FACE, HE GETS MAD AT YOU, BUT WHEN YOU TAKE HIM FOR A CAR RIDE, HE STICKS HIS HEAD OUT THE WINDOW?



January 25, 2008

Blogs That Made My Day - An Award

My buddy Laura at Laura Williams' Musings was kind enough to name me among a list of blogs that made her day. This is a high honor for me, especially since hers is one of the blogs I read every day. And not just for her wonderful contest links, but for the great tips she shares, the reviews, and just her loving and fun attitude.

Laura says this about me: "Melissa's blog is a daily stop on my reading list. She offers book reviews, fun tidbits about history, and more"

There are several blogs I would like to point out to you that you may not know about. These are blogs I check on every day because I really enjoy reading what new things they will have to share. I am putting them in alphabetical order.

1. A Bibliomane Amidst The Butterflies. Sherry often has links to great recipes and one of the things I appreciate most about her blog is that she shares some wonderful frugal tips and ways to stretch those dollars! This comes in very handy these days!


2.A Familiar Path Chickadee takes beautiful photos, shares the fun nature adventures of her children and her introspective posts pretty much always make me smile.

3. An Island Life Kailani is a trip! She shares photos of her lovely family and life in Hawaii, she has great giveaways and shares fun stories from her career as a flight attendant.

4. Atomik Kitten is a new addition to my list of blogs to visit. I must admit, I love her header! She's funny and she likes my blog, so I know she is a cool chick!

5. Camy's Loft Peer into the mind of a writer, get a chance to win great books and enjoy fun posts.

6. Clay in the Hands. This is a another new addition to my blog feeds. I am in love with the beautiful jewelry that Zuda Gay creates and she is even making a custom piece for me to give to my mom! So I keep touch with what she is up to by subscribing to her feed.

7. Mommy Cracked. Mandy makes me laugh. And I need all of the extra laughs I can get! Plus, I love reading her eggcellent posts!

8. My Three Boys and I Jen is a constant reader and I enjoy reading her blog posts because she is from New Zealand and I get a little window into that country that I hope to visit someday. She takes lots of pictures!

9. Scribbit Michelle hosts a wonderful writing contest each month, she shares wonderful (and I do mean wonderful) recipes, she has neat craft ideas, introduces her readers to other interesting people and shares quite a bit in both word and photos of her lovely state of Alaska.

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January 24, 2008

A Homeschooler's Rant

It's winter and we all may be a bit cranky. Long days spent inside when it is too cold to go out. All of us in constant close contact and maybe getting on each other's nerves just a little. But then we get a break, a glorious day where we get to go out and play and enjoy this beautiful world and all it has to offer. What can mar such a splendid occasion? The confrontation of others. You may have seen this rant before. It ran in Secular Homeschooling Magazine some time back, and then it was reprinted at the Family Hack Blog in November. My husband found it yesterday in his web meanderings and sent the link to me.

I thought I would share it here for my homeschool readers. Keep these fun responses in mind for the next time a 'concerned citizen' approaches you!

1. Please stop asking us if it’s legal. If it is — and it is — it’s insulting to imply that we’re criminals. And if we were criminals, would we admit it?

2. Learn what the words "socialize" and "socialization" mean, and use the one you really mean instead of mixing them up the way you do now. Socializing means hanging out with other people for fun. Socialization means having acquired the skills necessary to do so successfully and pleasantly. If you’re talking to me and my kids, that means that we do in fact go outside now and then to visit the other human beings on the planet, and you can safely assume that we’ve got a decent grasp of both concepts.

3. Quit interrupting my kid at her dance lesson, scout meeting, choir practice, baseball game, art class, field trip, park day, music class, 4H club, or soccer lesson to ask her if as a homeschooler she ever gets to socialize.


4. Don’t assume that every homeschooler you meet is homeschooling for the same reasons and in the same way as that one homeschooler you know.

5. If that homeschooler you know is actually someone you saw on TV, either on the news or on a "reality" show, the above goes double.

6. Please stop telling us horror stories about the homeschoolers you know, know of, or think you might know who ruined their lives by homeschooling. You’re probably the same little bluebird of happiness whose hobby is running up to pregnant women and inducing premature labor by telling them every ghastly birth story you’ve ever heard. We all hate you, so please go away.

7. We don’t look horrified and start quizzing your kids when we hear they’re in public school. Please stop drilling our children like potential oil fields to see if we’re doing what you consider an adequate job of homeschooling.

8. Stop assuming all homeschoolers are religious.

9. Stop assuming that if we’re religious, we must be homeschooling for religious reasons.

10. We didn’t go through all the reading, learning, thinking, weighing of options, experimenting, and worrying that goes into homeschooling just to annoy you. Really. This was a deeply personal decision, tailored to the specifics of our family. Stop taking the bare fact of our being homeschoolers as either an affront or a judgment about your own educational decisions.

11. Please stop questioning my competency and demanding to see my credentials. I didn’t have to complete a course in catering to successfully cook dinner for my family; I don’t need a degree in teaching to educate my children. If spending at least twelve years in the kind of chew-it-up-and-spit-it-out educational facility we call public school left me with so little information in my memory banks that I can’t teach the basics of an elementary education to my nearest and dearest, maybe there’s a reason I’m so reluctant to send my child to school.

12. If my kid’s only six and you ask me with a straight face how I can possibly teach him what he’d learn in school, please understand that you’re calling me an idiot. Don’t act shocked if I decide to respond in kind.

13. Stop assuming that because the word "home" is right there in "homeschool," we never leave the house. We’re the ones who go to the amusement parks, museums, and zoos in the middle of the week and in the off-season and laugh at you because you have to go on weekends and holidays when it’s crowded and icky.

14. Stop assuming that because the word "school" is right there in homeschool, we must sit around at a desk for six or eight hours every day, just like your kid does. Even if we’re into the "school" side of education — and many of us prefer a more organic approach — we can burn through a lot of material a lot more efficiently, because we don’t have to gear our lessons to the lowest common denominator.

15. Stop asking, "But what about the Prom?" Even if the idea that my kid might not be able to indulge in a night of over-hyped, over-priced revelry was enough to break my heart, plenty of kids who do go to school don’t get to go to the Prom. For all you know, I’m one of them. I might still be bitter about it. So go be shallow somewhere else.

16. Don’t ask my kid if she wouldn’t rather go to school unless you don’t mind if I ask your kid if he wouldn’t rather stay home and get some sleep now and then.

17. Stop saying, "Oh, I could never homeschool!" Even if you think it’s some kind of compliment, it sounds more like you’re horrified. One of these days, I won’t bother disagreeing with you any more.

18. If you can remember anything from chemistry or calculus class, you’re allowed to ask how we’ll teach these subjects to our kids. If you can’t, thank you for the reassurance that we couldn’t possibly do a worse job than your teachers did, and might even do a better one.

19. Stop asking about how hard it must be to be my child’s teacher as well as her parent. I don’t see much difference between bossing my kid around academically and bossing him around the way I do about everything else.

20. Stop saying that my kid is shy, outgoing, aggressive, anxious, quiet, boisterous, argumentative, pouty, fidgety, chatty, whiny, or loud because he’s homeschooled. It’s not fair that all the kids who go to school can be as annoying as they want to without being branded as representative of anything but childhood.

21. Quit assuming that my kid must be some kind of prodigy because she’s homeschooled.

22. Quit assuming that I must be some kind of prodigy because I homeschool my kids.

23. Quit assuming that I must be some kind of saint because I homeschool my kids.

24. Stop talking about all the great childhood memories my kids won’t get because they don’t go to school, unless you want me to start asking about all the not-so-great childhood memories you have because you went to school.

25. Here’s a thought: If you can’t say something nice about homeschooling, shut up!

January 23, 2008

7 Random Things About Me

Kailani over at An Island Life tagged me for the 7 Random Things Meme. If you haven't visited Kailani's blog, I highly recommend it! She lives in Hawaii, is a sterwardess and her job stories and photos of her children always make for great reading. Plus she has frequent giveaways.

Now on to my 7 Random Things....

1. I was born in Fort Gordon, GA while my Dad was in the army during the time of Vietnam. Through a miracle, he was never sent overseas which was a blessing to my mother whose father passed away a month before I was born.

2. My heroes when I was growing up were: The Bionic Woman, Isis, and Wonder Woman. I wanted to be like them and save the world from itself and the evil in it.

3. When I was growing up, the career choices I considered were nurse, writer, lawyer, and journalist. I ended up being all of those(and more) when I became a mom.

4. One of my most favorite things to do is sit in front of a roaring fire in a comfortable chair, with a good book, quiet music and a cup of hot chocolate.

5. I have been with my husband for almost 18 years.

6. I love the mountains and the ocean. Maybe one day, I will live in a location that has both in close proximity.

7. I can't decide whether my favorite pet is a cat or a dog. Cats require much less care and maintenance. Dogs are so loving and loveable.

There, now you have learned 7 more things about me! I bet that just made your day! If you would like to play along, just let me know and I will link to your post below. So let's share some linky love and some fun information about ourselves!

1. A Bibliomane Amidst the Butterflies

2. Your Link here!

January 22, 2008

My New Lamp

A couple of days ago, I shared about the yard sale/bake sale/raffle that we spent our Saturday working on to benefit our 4-H club and our project (which is sending care packages to troops overseas). I mentioned I had won a lamp, and my friend Sassy at The Sassy Southerner commented that she would like to see a picture of it. So here it is in all of its glory (and that is Obi Wan bowing in front of it...Star Wars is really taking over my house at the moment!)

So Sassy, this ones for you! Sorry, you only get a picture of the lamp, the living room is too much of a mess. The kids had a sleepover on the sofas last night!

The Things Children Say

Katrina is a big worksheet gal and she does well with math. So we started with a second grade workbook for her math back in August. She finished it in the first week of January. This was a 300 page book, so it wasn't tiny or anything. We decided to let her go on to grade 3 math. We had Saxon 3 math from when Jack used it a few years ago. I like the Saxon math Jack is currently using, but found the repetition of Saxon 3 a bit tedious. So we tend to do the meeting time part only until the child has it down pat. Anyway...this math is set up for homeschoolers, but then they have things like the 'class birthday graph'. Well, we have a class of three, my kids and me. Hard to make much of a graph with that. So in the two previous lessons, we just used our whole family to work out a birthday graph.

Today, Katrina and I reviewed her lesson, then I left her to do the worksheet.

She asks, "Mommy, how many days are in a year?"

"365," her brother answers helpfully. He often answers to Mommy and Daddy;)

Then Katrina asks, "How many people are there in the world?"

Now, i am not exactly sure of the most recent count, but I think it is about 2 Billion and that's what I tell her.

Later on, she is off doing something else, and I sit down to check her paper. Here is the question I find:

Use your class birthday graph to find the numer of birthdays there will be between today and the end of the year. 2,000,000,000 was her answer.

See, she gets it! The world is her classroom! And seeing how we are early into January, there is practically a whole year to go. That is sooooo cool!!!!!

I Received an Honorable Mention ...

...in Scribbit's January Write Away Contest with my tale of The Great Escape. Every month she has a guest judge come by and a fun topic to write about. Be sure to check out Scribbit's blog regularly for great recipes, fun stories from Alaska and her monthly writing contest!

The Write-Away Contest hosted by Scribbit

January 21, 2008

Book Review and Giveaway: Small Inventions That Make a Big Difference

Update: I spun the random generator and the number 2 popped up, so Mommy Cracked is the winner of this drawing! Congrats and enjoy!

Somewhere, someday when I was at a book sale, I picked up the book "Small Inventions That Make a Big Difference" This book was published by the National Geographic Society in 1984. So in on sense it is dated. There are no mentions of any of the inventions made in the last twenty four years. And the photos are from the 70s and 80s and you will absolutely love the photo of the 'modern' word processor. But all of that aside, the information is still interesting and valuable.

The first part of the book talks about how inventions come about (some through years of work and effort, some by accident). It explains the patent process. Then the end of the book is inventions A-Z. We really enjoyed learning about everthing from the invention of Aspirin to the Zipper. There are great pictures, each description is just a couple of paragraphs long and the kids stayed very interested in it. I am sure that you could find other such interesting books by heading to the bookstore or library, and you may prefer to find one more updated, but I wanted to offer you the chance to receive this book for free from me! This book is in very good condition, is hardback and is 104 pp long. If you would like to learn more about how many common items were invented, I think you and your child would enjoy this book!

Just comment below. I will hold the drawing on January 23rd at 6 pm. It is open to United States addresses only unless you want to pay the postage to ship overseas if you win.

Good luck!

January 20, 2008

Save on Your Prescription Medications!

My good friend, Carole, who taught me most of what I know about Ebay, has given me encouragement during my homsechooling years , and in general just een a wonderful friend, recently received some Drug Prescription cards with her credit cards bill. There was a brochure telling her the following:

"If you or someone you know does not have prescription coverage, the Simple Savings card can help! The Simple Savings card saves cardholders an average of 20% off their prescriptions at over 60,000 pharmacies nationwide including Walgreens, CVS, Walmart, Eckerds, Kroger, Rite-Aid, Winn Dixie, Publix, Kmart - plus thousands more. A single card can be used by an entire family and covers all drugs requiring a doctor's prescription. The free Simple Savings card can be used as long as it is needed - it is not a temporary card.

Try your free card today. There is no cost. There is no catch. Simply take your Simple Savings card to your local pharmacist and start to enjoy your savings!

The Simple Savings card is offered as a service of Luscinia Health. For more information you can visit their website.

Because of our size and relationships within the pharmaceutical industry, we are able to negotiate lower prices on your behalf. We get paid by the pharmaceutical companies when you use your card - all while you save money. When you save money, we make money, We both win!"

Carole knew that we don't have insurance and Daniel and I both have a couple of prescriptions that we fill regularly, so she sent these cards on to me. I haven't used them yet, but I will be giving them a try the next time I have a prescription to fill. I wanted to let you know about it in case you wanted to check it out!

January 19, 2008

Meet Flocke - a German Sweetie

This little cutie had to be taken away from his mama because she was not handling her well (carrying him in her mouth and tossing him about her enclosure). Flocke is German for flake as is snowflake. Flocke even has her own website.Bizarre to think this cute little girl will grow up to be a huge bear! She is being hand raised by the zoo keepers. They say her life is a bit well, boring, at the moment since she spends all her time eating and sleeping.

Rare Middle-Class Tomb Found From Ancient Egypt

An unrobbed middle-class tomb dating back to the Old Kingdom in Egypt has been discovered.

Archaeologists have unsealed the intact burial chamber of an ancient Egyptian official, providing a rare glimpse into the burial customs of the Old Kingdom's middle class.

The relatively modest tomb, belonging to a fifth dynasty priest and politician named Neferinpu, was discovered in 2006 at Abusir, the ancient necropolis of the fifth and 26th dynasties, located near modern-day Cairo.


Now that's what I call a time capsule!

Huge Palm Grows, Flowers, and Dies in Madagascar

A huge palm in its own genus has been discovered in Madagascar. The palm tree grows to be 6 stories tall and 1.5 feet in diameter. Then it blooms, hundreds of thousands of blooms. These blooms drip nectar when they open. Once pollinated, each flower turns into a fruit. The palm's nutrient reserves then become depleted, the crown collapses, and the tree dies a prolonged death.

Talk about a spectacular ending to a life!

The Exercise Part of My New Year's Resolution

In addition to counting calories, I am excited about a new piece of fitness equipment that I will be receiving. We have a Stair Master, a weight bench and an elliptical. Unfortunately, a bum knee has made it so that I can't use the elliptical or stair master. I have been doing some stretching and weight lifting/strength training now that my knee is feeling better. I am very excited about an exercise bike that I am going to be receiving from my pastor. He had been given one and it is gathering dust in his basement. I offered to buy it, but he said he would just be happy if I would take it off of his hands. Once he delivers it, I'll be riding my bike while listening to books on my iPod and the pounds will be disappearing!

217 Year Old Time Capsule Found in Mexican Cathedral

A time capsule was found atop a bell tower at México City's Metropolitan Cathedral, where it was placed in 1791 to protect the building from harm, researchers said.

I have always thought time capsules are so cool. In 1976, my elementary school buried a time capsule. Someday someone will open that up and see what we were doing in 1976. An easy archaeological dig!


I Need to Get Busy on My New Year's Resolution

Yearly, I make the resolution to lose weight and I lose for a few months, then go back to my normal habits, then have to start all over again the next year. One year, hubby and I started the day after Thanksgiving with our New Year's Resolution, that was great, but we just seem to like to eat too much and after 5 or 6 months go back to our old, evil ways.

There are so many weight loss products out there. Everything from eca stack (Ephedra, Caffeine, and Aspirin) to special diets, to major exercise routines. I haven't had much luck with pills myself, Amazingly, the thing that does work consistenly is watching how many calories I take in a day. When I cut back, I lose. Who would have thought it could be so simple?

I think we all want the quick fix and that attracts us to the pills and programs, but in the long run, eating right, eating less and exercising some each day are the things that will make the difference.

Yard Sale, Bake Sale, Raffle...Oh My!

Our 4-H club had their second fundraiser today. We had a very successful bake sale/donation drive (our community project is to support our troops) back in October and we raised over 400.00. This time we decided to have a raffle/bake sale/yard sale. We raised about 230.00 today. We hoped for better and we had a lot of stuff to take to Goodwill when we were done, but we still had fun.

I entered two of the 19 raffles, one for a lovely new lamp dontated by a furniture company and one for a $25 gift certificate to Logan's Roadhouse and 2 free bowling passes. I won the lamp! It is amazing how different a classy looking lamp can make your living room look! It's great!

Katrina entered one raffle and won a hamster kit. She got a new cage for her hamster she bought last week (Hans Solo), feed, bedding, treats, and a toy. This was a super good deal for a dollar. Jack's hamster is living in an older cage and the plastic parts are currently held together with duck tape. He will be getting Hans Solo's old cage and Hans will be moving into a new cage. Happiness for everyone!

Jack entered a raffle for a coat stand for me, entered twice into a raffle for the Logan's Road house/bowling combo so he could take his dad, and entered for some cool VA Tech soda holders...unfortunately, he didn't win any.

We came home with a pound cake and a chocolate chess pie. (We didn't need any of them, but they are pretty tasty). Katrina got a skirt, a shirt, a pair of cute pink boots and a green bathing suit cover up for 1.00. She also ended up with 8 Nancy Drew books for 1.00 and a pair of earrings for .50 and an Obi Wan Kenobi figure for .50.

I came home with two candles for .50 each, a new Bible carrier/cover for .50, and some note cards for .50.. All in all a pretty good deal for us!

I be tired though! We were up at 6, there at 7:30 and didn't leave until 2:30. Then I had to go to the Goodwill to drop off the extras. Then home to laundry and supper and odds and ends.

A good and fun day!

January 18, 2008

Visit Laura Williams Musings

Hey all, if you have vistied my friend Laura in the past, you will know that she has awesome contest posts! Everyday, she provides links to contests all over the blogosphere. I have won a bunch of stuff because I read her contest post every day and enter several a day. She also provides recipes, product reviews, and just bits of life posts.

Well Blogger, owned by Google, has tagged her as a spam blog and has locked her out of her blog. She can't post new entries. But she has found a way around this dilemma. If you want to check out her blog for the first time or if you are a regular, you will find she has her posts up and running, but they are not being picked up via RSS or email fees.

So, go over to Laura's, get your contest fix and show your support!

January 17, 2008

Awards Post

I have been given some fun awards in the past year, but I am trying to clean up a sidebar a bit, so I am putting them here.





















This excellent award was bestowed upon me by the Atomik Kitten and Saddeyezz Scraps and Snaps

My Blog Roll

The more I visit around on the Internet, the more people I find that I enjoy reading their blogs. But my sidebar is getting out of control. So I am going to move my blog roll here to it's own little entry and I am going to link to this post from my sidebar just as soon as I make a fun button!

These are all blogs that I visit at on a pretty regular basis there is good stuff in them. If you are looking for more blogs to visit and new people to meet, this is a great place to start! Have fun!

The Snowmen Have Landed!

The kids have been fun in that greatest snow tradition...making snowmen. They both made their own all by themselves!

Vacation Plans

Now that Daniel is working, we are beginning to think about vacation plans. We try to get to the beach once a year. In the past we have stayed in a variety of different hotels, but this year we are thinking we would prefer to rent a house a bit more off the beaten path (away from the Grand Strand at Myrtle Beach). We are just at that stage in our life where we are looking for at least one totally relaxed vacation a year (you know, not the kind where you feel like you have to do stuff all the time you are gone).

We are also talking a little about going to Disney World this year. My husband's mother and stepfather live in Florida and we have talked about going down there for years. With Jack 11 and Katrina about to be 8, it seems like this year would be a great time to go.

Another thing we have been tossing around is checking out one of the many cruises available. I think it would be on a ship, visiting exotic locales and having all the amenities floating along with us.

Where is your favorite place to vacation?

I Want To Growl At Toy Companies

Yesterday my daughter wanted to go to Walmart. She had some money left from Christmas gifts and she wanted to get a Hans Solo action figure (as Star Wars is her newest obsession). Well, it took us some time to find a Hans Solo figure. There were only two left and they were on an end cap instead of their regular spot. Hans came with Chewbacca as well. She paid 11.00 for the two and happily left the store. Within an hour, the head of Hans had come lose from the figure. She has been able to put it back on and it stays (except when she puts on his Storm Trooper disguise and then goes to take off the helmet.

Now, I know $11.00 isn't a huge amount of money, but it is enough money to expect to receive a toy that will hold up more than a couple of hours! And this isn't our first unhappiness with action figures. When Pirates of the Caribbean were the favorite action figures, we have Barbossa, Jack Sparrow, Will, Elizabeth, Bootstrap Bill and Davy Jones. All of them, except Elizabeth who is the newest acquisition, have missing body parts. Now my kids have played with them a lot, but not in such a way that their body parts should ahve been falling off in the first week of purchase.

Don't companies test these toys for their hold togetherness anymore? Isn't the purpose of an action figure to be played with? Shouldn't the manufacturers expect these toys to hold up to play? Is anyone else disgruntled with the poor products we are being sold?

Computer Geek Pack Rat

My hubby is a computer geek pack rat. So our home and his office are overflowing with computer parts. There are scanners, bubble jet printers, ink jet printers, laser printers, fax machines, laptops, used cisco routers, network cards, wireless internet cards, wireless internet routers, monitors, computer boxes, hard drives, keyboards and an endless supply of cables. In fact we could probably start our own cable business with the cables that he has collected and held on to for the last 18 years. Did I mention my hubby is a pack rat?

He doesn't like to get rid of anything! He recently purchased two new pairs of tennis shoes. He gets good ones when he buys them because he has flat feet and needs all the support he can get. And he is a creature of habit. When he goes to get his shoes, he picks out two pair. One for everyday wear, and one for exercising. Does he throw out the old worn out shoes? No, of course not...he puts them in the closet with all the above mentioned leftover computer parts. His thought is that he may need those one day!

Do you have a pack rat in your family?

It's Heeerrrreee!!!!!!

Just as my predicted, the snow has arrived! And we couldn't be happier! (Well, maybe if we got like a foot we would be happier!)

My angel making an angel!

The first snow on our deck that was built last spring.

"Mommy, the snow is attacking me" or "Get away, Paparazzi! This is a private moment!"

"Okay, I'lll let you take this one photo...but just one. Doesn't the snow look nice in my hair?"

"Help..it's alien snow people!"

January 16, 2008

Spooky Prediction

Some people may be surprised at the wintery weather in the southlands today and tomorrow, but not my family. See, we knew it was coming...we have known since early in December...really!

One day, we were sitting around and I was moaning about the lack of snow. We love snow! At one time, we looked at moving to Steamboat Springs, Colorado where the average annual snowfall is 24 feet a year. We love snow! We want snow. Last year, we took a winter vacation into the mountains so we could see some snow. My husband told me to give it time, the snow would come. I looked at him and said, 'yeah, right...when?'

Just as seriously, he answered, "January 17th". I laughed, wrote it down on the calendar and said, "Yeah, sure...we'll see" .

Well, tomorrow we are supposed to get 2-4 inches of snow. And tomorrow is January 17th. And now we are all in awe of my husband's psychic powers. Perhaps, he should go to work for the Weather Channel - he gets the weather right more often than they do!

CFBA Blog Tour: The Christian Writer's Market Guide

Every January 15th, The Christian Writer's Market Guide is republished with new and updated information. If you are interested in writing for Christian publications, this guide is indispensible. This 628 pp book (which includes a CD-ROM) is chock full of information!

From the table of contents:

1. About this book (introduction and how to use)
2. Resources for writers
3. Book Publishers (this section tells you all the Christian book publishers and what they are looking for. You will find contact information, amounts they pay and more.)
4. Periodicals (a listing a magazines and what they are looking for and what they will pay. Writing for magazines is a great way to break into the publishing world)
5. Greeting Card/Gift/Speciality (more paying markets for you to check out)
6. Helps for Writers (this section includes information on conferences, workships. agents, and CONTESTS)
7. Index and glossary

Whether you are new at writing or writing is 'old hat', this book should be a part of your writer's book shelf.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Sally Stuart has been writing for the last 40+ years, and has been putting out the annual "Christian Writers' Market Guide" for the last 23 years. Her other writing includes several Christian education resources books, a children's picture book, a basic writing text, writing resources, and a western novel--plus hundreds of articles and marketing columns. She writes marketing columns for the "Christian Communicator," "Advanced Christian Writer," and the Oregon Christian Writers' Newsletter. She speaks and teaches at Christian Writers' Conferences nationwide. Sally is the mother of 3 and grandmother of 8. She and her husband, Norm, spend their free time vacationing on the Oregon coast.

Check out her blog for the latest marketing news!

You can purchase this very handy book at Amazon.com.


January 15, 2008

Bloggy Giveaways Carnival January 28th-February 1st

I don't know if you have heard yet or not, but something very exciting is coming for the last week of January! And I mean very exciting! Shannon, over at Bloggy Giveways is hosting a giveaway carnival. The last time she did this, there were over five hundred participants! That means there were over five hundred chances for you to win and there were some awesome prizes!

So get your finger ready, because the fun will be starting soon. And I am planning on having five giveways that week myself! So you will definitely want to be stopping here. I will have items from Twisted Silver, ZudaGay, Chit, Chat, and Chew, Skin MD, and 3 copies of Reluctant Smuggler by Jill Nelson, a newly released book. So bookmark this site and come back the last week of January. You will be glad you did!

Get The Digest Version of What the Presidential Candidates Believe

If you are having a hard time sorting out which of the political candidates believes what, here is a great link from CNN that tackles the big issues and shares what each of the candidates is saying.

Homeschool Carnival Is Up!

Grab a cup of coffee and go check out this week's Homeschool Carnival. Judy has done an awesome job setting it up and celebrating Martin Luther King at the same time! Go dip in or dive in, you are sure to find something interesting there!

January 14, 2008

Archive Meme

This is an awesome Meme. Beth at The Sassy Southerner tagged me for this today.

Here are the rules for this meme:

1) Go back through your archives and post links to five favorite blog posts that you’ve written. But there is a catch:
a) Link 1 must be about family.
b) Link 2 must be about friends.
c) Link 3 must be about yourself, who you are… what you’re all about.
d) Link 4 must be about something you love.
e) Link 5 can be about anything you choose.

2) Post your five links, and then tag five other people. At least TWO of the people you tag must be newer acquaintances so that you get to know each other better.

1. Instead of a post about my children, I thought I would share a post that I wrote on Veteran's Day honoring my family members that have served our country.

2. For this post, I chose one I had written to enter a contest (which I ended up winning). It is about a themed basket I once made for a friend. Check it out and hopefully you will get a chuckle!

3. I don't write a lot about me personally. So here is my introduction post that I wrote when I started this blog. It is the one that says the most about who I am in one place.

4. Something I love? My hubby, my children, writing, reading, Christmas, animals... too many to choose from. Since the purpose of this is to share information about me, I'll pick one of my Christmas posts (that has links to other Christmas posts. Lots of fodder there to keep you busy! Oops, wait, I found this other post about something I love...it should give you a chuckle!

5. This is one of my most popular posts (not the most comments, but the most hits). It is about Chores and Allowances. Maybe it will be helpful to you.


I am supposed to tag five more people, but I know a lot of people don't like to do memes and tags, so I will just leave this open to anyone who wants to share more about themselves. If you do a blog entry, leave me a comment and I will link to you in this post:)

1. My Three Boys and I

The Explanation of Life

A friend of mine sent this to me in my email today and it gave me a chuckle. Hopefully it will give you a chuckle too!

On the first day, God created the dog and said:

'Sit all day by the door of your house and bark at anyone who comes in or walks past. For this, I will give you a life span of twenty years.'

The dog said: 'That's a long time! to be barking. How about only ten years and I'll give you back the other ten?'

So God agreed.
On the second day, God created the monkey and said:

'Entertain people, do tricks, and make them laugh. For this, I'll! l give you a twenty-year life span.'

The monkey said: 'Monkey tricks for twenty years? That's a pretty long time to perform. How about I give you back ten like the dog did?'

And God agreed.

On the third day, God created the cow and said:
'You must go into the field with the farmer all day long and suffer under the sun, have calves and give milk to support the farmer's family. For this, I will give you a life span of sixty years.'

The cow said: 'That's kind of a tough life you want me to live for sixty years. How about twenty and I'll give back the other forty?'

And God agreed again.

On the fourth day, God created man and said:

'Eat, sleep, play, marry and enjoy your life. For this, I'll give you twenty years.'

But man said: 'Only twenty years? Could you possibly give me my twenty, the forty the cow gave back, the ten the monkey gave back, and the ten
the dog gave back; that makes eighty, okay?'

'Okay,' said God, 'You asked for it.'

So that is why for our first twenty years we eat, sleep, play and enjoy ourselves. For the next forty years we slave in the sun to support our family. For the next ten years we do monkey tricks to entertain the grandchildren. And for the last ten years we sit on the front porch and bark at everyone.

Life has now been explained to you.

There is no need to thank me for this valuable information. I'm doing it as a public service.

China Joins Movement to Ban Plastic Bags

China joins other countries and cities who have already made the move to banning plastic bags being handed out by retailers. Internationally, legislation to discourage plastic bag use has been passed in parts of South Africa, Ireland, and Taiwan, where authorities either tax shoppers who use them or impose fees on companies that distribute them. Bangladesh already bans them, as do at least 30 remote Alaskan villages.

Last year, San Francisco became the first U.S. city to ban petroleum-based plastic bags in large grocery stores.

In France, supermarket chains have begun shying away from giving away plastic bags, and German stores must pay a recycling fee if they wish to offer them.

Ireland's surcharge on bags was imposed in 2003 and has been credited with sharply reducing demand.

It has been estimated by The Sierra Club that if every one of New York City's eight million people used one less grocery bag per year, it would reduce waste by about 218,000 pounds. WOW!

I am all for seeing this same type of legislation take place here in the United States. I am curious though, how retailers feel about this for shop lifting purposes. I walk in with my 6 or 7 reusable bags (an estimate as it would depend on the bag size and the amount of shopping I do, but I shop once every week or two and I usually come home with 10-20 of those flimsy plastic bags. So I walk in with my reusable bags, seems like this would make it easier for people to shoplift. Just pick up one or two small items, leave without paying, it would be hard for the stores to know unless they set up security at the doors to check. Also, how does this affect the cashiers with their bagging? Since some people are already using the reusable bags, I would love to hear how it works for you!

If you are thinking about purchasing reusable bags, one place on the internet that I found while googling is Resuable Bags.com. This is just one of many such sites, but one thing I like about them is that they use fair trade and fair pay products.

Don't forget to tell me how reusable bags are working for you!

January 13, 2008

2008 Kids' Book List

This is where I will keep track of the books the kids and I read. Reading aloud is part of our history, our science, and usually our evening ritual.

1. Jack Sparrow: Dance of the Hours by Rob Kidd. If you haven't discovered the books that follow Jack Sparrow as a teenager and you have POTC lovers in your household, you should check these books out! They are great fun. This was number 8 in the series, I believe.

2. The Flying Horse: The Story of Pegasus by Jane B. Mason

3. The Parthenon by Elizabeth Mann: this is a great book that tells the history of the Parthenon and I learned some things I didn't know about this amazing structure. The illustrations are wonderful too. And the writing kept the children interested.

4. Cupid and Psyche M. Charlotte Craft - a wonderful myth with fantastic drawings

5. The Great Alexander the Great by Joe Lasker. A great picture book with an overview of the history of Alexander the Great.

6. Small Inventions That Make a Big Difference - a great, even if dated book about how many of the things in our world today were invented.

7. The Two Mountains: An Aztec Legend - retold by Eric A. Kimmel and illustrated by Leonard Everett Fisher. This is a wonderful story of how two mountains were created that bears striking similarities to the story of Adam and Eve.

8. Thirteen Moons on Turtle's Back: A Native American Year of Moons by Joseph Bruchac and Jonathan London. Illustrated by Thomas Locker. I have always been especially attracted to the Native American way of life and their histories. I enjoyed reading these stories about how they came up with the names of the different moons of the year.

9. Jabuti The Tortoise: A trickster Tale from the Amazon told by Gerald McDermott - This is a very colorful book. The fact that he was a trickster reminded us of the trickster spider in African mythology. Reading stories from different cultures can shed a lot of light on the culture and what it believed in.


10. The Roman News: The Greatest Newspaper in Civilization - this book is set up in a wonderful style like a newspaper. It covers a variety of topics (from Fashion to religion to building to food) and the short articles and fun pictures are sure to keep your kids interested!

11. Man On the Moon by Anastasia Suen, illustrated by Benrei Huang. A picture book of man's first landing on the moon.

12. When the Moon Is Full: A Lunar Year by Penny Pollock and illustrated y Mary Azarian. This book has beautiful illustrations that the children really enjoyed. Another book based on the Native American names for the different 'moons' of the year. It tells why they got that name and there is a short poem on each moon. At the end there are questions and answers that help teach your child about the moon.

13. If You Decide To Go To the Moon by Faith McNulty and illustrated by Steven Kellog. This book has cute illustrations and takes the reader on a journey into space and to the moon. The story weaves in history (past moon visits), science (information about the moon and space) and ends with a reminder of how special earth is.

14. Countdown to Space Moon Base First Colony in Space by Michael D. Cole. This is a book that portrays one author's thoughts and vision for the next thirty years of the space program. It would be great to see a working base on the moon, but I am not sure his timeline of this happening by 2030 is realistic due to the current climate on the space program.

15. Learning About Earth's Cycles With Graphic Organizers by Isaac Nadeau. This book starts small with the cycle of a child's day and expands until you have hit the cycle of the universe.

16. What Do Animals Do In Winter? How Animals Survive the Cold by Melvin and Gilda Berger, illustrated by Susan Harrison. An easy to read and understand book about how a vareity of animals spend their winter months.

17. Every Autumn Comes the Bear by Jim Arnosky. A lovely book where we see a bear preparing for the winter.

18. How Do Birds Find Their Way? by Roma Gans and illustrated by Paul Mirocha An well illustrated and easy to understand books about birds and how they migrate. It talks about how they use the position o fthe sun, the position of the stars, and the magnetic field to find their way back and forth.

19. Time To Sleep by Denise Fleming - a picture book where the creatures of the forest alert one another to the coming of winter.

20. I Once Was a Monkey: Stories Buddha Told by Jeanne M. Lee - A wonderful way to get an idea of the teachings of Buddha.

21. The Annotated Wizard of Oz by L. Frank Baum, edited by Michael Patrick Hearn - we enjoyed reading the story of the Wizard of Oz. I had only seen the movie previously. The comments in this version shed light on the story as well, but I only read a few of those. There are some scenes in the book that don't take place in the movie.

22. Jack Sparrow: Sins of the Father by Robert Kidd. This is the 10th in a series of books about Jack Sparrow when he was young and the children and I have enjoyed every book. In some ways this was the best as it gives us more insight into Jack and it introduces people like Teague, Gibbs, and James Norrington!

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23. Ten Suns: A Chinese Legend retold by Eric A. Kimmel and illustrated by Yongsheng Xuan.

24. The Lost Horse by Ed Young.

25. The Dragon Prince: A Chinese Beauty and The Beast Tale told by Laurence Yep with pictures by Kam Mak

26. Ancient China (The Nature Company Discoveries Library

27. The Great Wall of China by Leonard Everett Fisher

28. Glass Slipper, Gold Sandal: A Worldwide Cinderella by Paul Fleischman and illustrated by Julie Paschkis. I saw this on one of the endcaps and read the book jacket cover:

"Once upon a time, in Mexico...in Iran...in Ireland...in Zimbabwee...

There lived a girl who worked all day in the rice fields...cooked in the royal kitchen...tended the cattle...then spent the night by the hearth, sleeping among the cinders.

The girl's name is Ashpet...Vasalisa...Sootface...Catskin...Cendrillon...Cinderella.

Her story has spanned centuries and continents, changing to match its suroundings. Now Newbery-winning author Paul Fleischman and illustrator Julie Paschkis braid its many versions into one globe-spanning tale, a hymn to the rich variety and the enduring constants of our cultures."

This story is enchanting and the illustrations are wonderful! The Cinderella lover in your house will love it! I did!

29. We read The Empty Pot. The Empty Pot by Demi is wonderfully illustrated and tells a fantastic story about the virtue of being truthful. Every parent will enjoy this tale right along with their children.

Melissa's 2008 Book List

I read a lot of books! I mean a lot. Both to myself and to my children. So I am going to keep a running list of the books I have read this year. In this post I will share the books I have read for myself. In another post, I will keep track of the books the kids and I have read. Who knows, you may find a book you would like to read! Plus it will be neat for me to see how many books I read in 2008!

1. Deliver Us From Evelyn by Chris Well

2. The Reluctant Smuggler by Jill Elizabeth Nelson - a novel of adventure, constant action, arcaheology, mystery, a strong heroine and romance. What more could you want in a book?

3. Awaken My Heart by DiAnn Mills: a wonderful historical, inspirational romance that takes place in the colony of Texas in 1803.

4. Bluegrass Peril by Virginia Smith. Part of the Love Inspired Suspense collection. A mystery thriller with Christian passages and romance all thrown in.

5. Death of a Six-Foot Teddy Bear by Sharon Dunn - a newly released mystery with more than one story to keep your mind occupied and to keep thing twisted around!

Books In The Mail

I love to read and this past week I received several books in the mail. Some I received due to winning contests and some I received to do reviews on them. Most of them you will see in the future as giveaways because as much as I love reading books, I love sharing good books!

So here is what showed up for me this past week:

Awaken My Heart by DiAnn Mills. This is an inspirational romance and I will be reviewing it the last week of January or the first week of February, so keep an eye out!

From the back cover: Marianne Phillips, the daughter of a wealthy rancher, has never agred with her father's harsh treatment of the poor mestizos who first inhaited the colony of Texas, when rebels kidnap Mairanne, in hopes her father will trade back their land for her freedom, she realizes her loyalty lies with her abductors, not her father, who plans to marry her off to the don of a nearby estated.

Armando Garcia is the locals' reluctant leader, but his people revere and depend on him. Knowing that without his leadership they'd be forced from their land, Armando accepts his role, but does not approve of the latesst attempt to manipulate the enemy. When he learns that Marianne actually speaks his language, of her loyalty to his people, and of the faith that keeps her strong, Armando is faced with a difficult decision. Will his newfound love keep him from leeting her go? Or will he set her free and risk losing their land forever?

From Camy Tang at Camy's Loft, I won the book Bluegrass Peril by Virginia Smith.

From the back cover: Local police had tagged single mom Becky Dennison as their prime suspect. But she'd only been in the wrong place at the wrong time...admittedly, with her boss's lifeless body. Sure, it looked bad, but Becky had no motive for killing the man - even if she had opportunity.

Then Scott Lewis, handsome assistant manager of a nearby horse farm, entered Becky's life. Soon the amateur detectives were hot on the trail of the murderer...even as their feelings for each other deepened. And for Becky and Scott, this race on the Kentucky tracks had the greatest stakes of all: life or death.

Then from Katrina at Stone Soup I won a specially double nice prize. Back in November I entered a book give-away. What I didn't realize was that my email and web addy's didn't show up (I thought they would be linked to from my name and didn't double check). So I won her contest, but she didn't have a way of contacting me!

But one of her readers: Shama-lama Mama took it upon herself to ferret me out of the internet and with a little research, they found me. Interestingly enough, if you read Shama-lama Mama's comment, she says she had been by the contest earlier, but didn't sign up because she would have been the first and she said the number 1 person never gets picked. Then she says that because she said that number one would probably be chosen. Guess who number one was? ME!!!!

So the book I won from Katrina is Snow Flower and the Secret Fan by Lisa See.

From the back cover: In nineteenth-century China, in a remote Hunan county, a girl named Lily, at the tender age of seven is paired witha laotong, or "old same," in an emotional match that will last a lifetime. The laotong, Snow Flower, introduces herself by sending Lily a silk fan on which she has written a poem in nu shu, a unique language that Chinese women created in order to communicate in secret, away from the influence of men. As the years pass, Lily and Snow Flower send messages on the fan and compose stories on handkerchiefs, reaching out of isolation to share their hopes, dreams, and accomplishments. They both endure the agony of footbinding and together reflect upon their arranged marriages, shared loneliness, and the joys and tragedies of motherhood. The two find solace, developing a ond that keeps their spirits alive. But when a misunderstanding arises, their deep friendship suddenly threatens to tear apart.

But that is not all! See, a couple of weeks ago, Katrina had another contest with another winner, but when she went to the post office, she was having one of those days and she inadvertently mailed that book to me as well! The title of it is Any Bitter Thing by Monica Wood. I offered to send it on to the correct winner, but she insisted I keep it and this book looks good too!

From the dust jacket: Surprising, gripping and compassionate, Any Bitter Thing is a constantly intriguing tale of family, faith, and deeply hidden truths.

Lizzy Mitchell was raised from the age of two by her uncle, a Catholic priest. She has never understood why she was taken from him and sent away to boarding school at age nine, and she believes the reasons were later buried along with her uncle. Now thirty years old, and trying to save a failing marriage, Lizzy nearly dies in a traffic accident. In the haze of recovery in the hospital she hears the voice of her beloved uncle, Father Mike, and sets out to find the truth about him and her past.

Her search and what she discovers completely shatters her understanding of herself, her closest friends, and the ties that bind.

This thoroughly engrossing novel about belief and deception, love and acceptance will defy your expectations and reward you with its revelations.

So as you can see, I have several wonderful books to read and who knows...you may get a chance to read them yourself very soon!

January 12, 2008

Making The Best Use Of Your Company's Assets

The number one asset of any company is the people who work in it. Without people, business go nowhere. People answer the phones, create the products, build, and make the businesses work. But we don't always know how to make the best use of our assets. Perhaps you hire employee A for their wonderful way with organizing. But what you don't realize about employee A is that they also speak three languages and have a way with design because that wasn't the initial reason for hiring employee A. Maybe you noticed it and thought it was really cool at the time you hired the employee, but once you hired them for the specific position, it was no longer necessary to hold on to those extra facts.

Now your company has grown and you could use those skills of employee A, but you have forgotten about them. That's where talent management comes in handy. By using Halogen software, you can do the following:

  • Appraise employee performance
  • Run 360 degree assessments
  • Align and track employee and organizational goals
  • Plan training and development
  • Use talent pools for succession planning
  • Make compensation adjustments based on performance
  • Gain insight with dashboards and analytics


Make the most out of your number one asset! Don't let talents remain unused and forgotten!

Having Fun While Learning About the Moon

Yesterday our nature group met. The topic of the day was the moon. One mom brought some crafts for the kids to do. These included making an earth and moon with stryofoam balls and then attaching the moon to the earth so that it could spin around the earth. The kids had a lot of fun with that. For the earth we started with a green styrofoam ball and then painted on the oceans and clouds and ice caps. Here is what Jack and Katrina's looked like:

Katrina's earth had quite a bit more cloud cover. Jack's earth had some lovely continents that actually resembled real ones! The kids really enjoyed this activity.

Then the first group came to me while another group started on making their earths and moons. My group learned a bit about the Geology of the moon. I had a book with some great photos that were taken by astronauts and it really gave them an idea of what the moon looked like.

We talked about craters and how they were formed. We discussed the fact that the moon has rock like the earth and that the theory is that the moon is actually a chunk of the earth. Then we got to the really fun stuff...making our own craters.

What? You want to make craters too? Well here's what you need...

A kitty litter pan (or something similar)
a 5 lb bag of flour
some cocoa powder or paint powder
rocks of about the same size
rocks or balls of different sizes
newspaper to help with the mess or better yet, do it outside

Place your kitty litter pan on top of the newspaper.
Fill it with flour.
level the flour.
Sprinkle some powder on top (for differentiation)
Stand back!

A couple of experiments you can do.

1. Have one child drop four rocks of different sizes from the same height (maybe even with his eyes). See if different size craters form. You will also see how the cocoa explodes off to the sides. Smooth out and let another child try.

2. Take rocks that are the same size and throw them with different velocities (drop one, throw one a bit harder, throw another harder still....) and see how that affects the size of the craters.

3. Try throwing the rocks into the flour from an angle to see if the crater is still circular.

4. Talk about the fact that even though the objects hitting the moon aren't round, the craters that are formed often are.

The last activity was to make telescopes and talk to the kids a bit about the different phases of the moon. They can record these themselves on some worksheets that were provided.

All in all, it was a fun and informative day.

Text Morph - The Website That Improves Your Words

Do you tend to use the same words over and over again? Maybe you always say 'walk' when you could use more interesting verbs like strolled, scampered, crept, and skipped. Or maybe you always say 'said' when you could use more interesting verbs such as retorted, scolded, whispered, cried.

When we use more descriptive terms (for instance Golden Retriever versus dog), then we give the reader more information. Our reading becomes more entertaining and by using better words, we can use fewer words. When we use the verb 'whisper' then we don't have to write 'said quielty'. And whispered, because of its definition gives the reader an understanding of something being said quietly, perhaps secretively, perhaps to keep a person concealed. It just is a richer word by far.

A thesaurus is a handy tool for helping to choose better words. But a thesaurus isn't always on hand and you have to be careful with a thesaurus. You have to know what the word means before you can go picking a word to replace it. If you are using walking as a verb, you don't want to choose a word that turns it into a noun.

And remember how earlier I mentioned you might be using a word frequently? It would be helpful to have a program that would point out if you have a word you are using a lot. You might want to take a peek at
TextMorph Jan. 08. This is a website where you can type in your sentences and it will give you options of other words you can use via drop down boxes. It will also make suggestions about whether your sentences are too long or too short and will point out words you may be using too frequently. And the site is free. This is a beta site so it has its shortcomings. A lot of the word choices I was offered aren't improvements and aren't even the same form (like it shows me nouns when it should be a verb that I am choosing). But it is still kind of fun to use and as more people check it out and make suggestions, hopefully the program will get better.

What I found most useful about it was it gave me an idea if my sentences were too long or short and it pointed out the words I was using too often.

Snowman Craft and Gravity

After we took down the Christmas decorations, my daugther commented on how bare the walls looked. I had taken down a few wall hangings to put up Christmas stuff and since I hope to get a cabinet to put in that spot sometime this year, I just left the wall hangings off. So of course, we needed to fill that spot. And since it is the middle of January and we have had a total of .5 inches of snow, we figured we best just make some of our own snowment. In case you would like some fun snowmen for your house, here's what you will need.

Supplies:

White posterboard
Black construction paper
glitter glue
sequins
glue stick
tape
scissors
pencil

First you make circles of three different sizes on the poster board. Make as many as you want to make snowmen. We made 9 snowmen, so we had 9 very big circles, 9 big circles and 9 small circles.

Then using the smallest circle we drew 9 hats on black construction paper. Basically a thin rectangle with a square on top.

Here's what the pieces look like.

Next you tape the pieces together (I did this on the back of the snowman).

Now for the fun part...use your glitter glue and sequins to decorate your snowmen and make them shiny.

I particularly liked Jack's sheriff snowmen (note the blue star and the red star on the reast of the snowmen.

Now where does gravity come into this post, you may be asking? The bottom right you will see a snowman with silver down his front. He started out with good size silver glitter glue buttons. But I was in a hurry and wanted to hang him up. I didn't let him dry...and the glue seemed so thick, but even glue couldn't defeat gravity. I came back a bit later to put up another snowman and his buttons had leaked down his front! It was a good opportunity to show the kids the effect of gravity! Of course that was my intent all along, yep, that's the ticket!

Mustard - The Number One Condiment On My List!

I love mustard! And I am not just talking about the yellow mustard that one will find in fast food restaurants or in most people's refrigerator. I enjoy the tangy taste of mustard and and I am always looking out to try new mustard combinations. Some of my favorites have been spicy brown mustard, honey mustard, and vidalia onion mustard. A good mustard can really perk up a sandwich (or in my case, I also enjoy mustard on my French Fries, Chicken Nuggets, and occasionally, I even enjoy a mustard and onion sandwich.


So I was tickled pink when I was given the opportunity to try two new Grey Poupon mustards and share with you my honest opinion about these products.

I am also a long time fan of horseradish, so spicy brown mustard is what I gravitate towards for my sandwiches, pretzels, and to dip pieces of turkey and ham in during the long holiday season! So when I received the new Grey Poupon Hearty Spicy Brown mustard, I couldn't wait to get the top off and give it a whirl. This mustard takes the nose opening Grey Poupon recipe and adds in bits of yellow onion. It is so yummy, you can eat it with a spoon (or lick it from the tip of your finger) and make your tastebuds tingle. So far, I have also enjoyed it on my french fries, chicken nuggets and for dipping my pretzels into! If you like a mustard that lets you know it is there, then you should give the Grey Poupon Hearty Spicy Brown mustard a try.

Grey Poupon is also introducing the Harvest Coarse Ground flavor. This flavor is even more sinus opening than the other. And I love the texture of the mustard seeds. This mustard is chock full of mustard seeds that burst in your mouth with tangy goodness giving you a delightful flavor sensation. Of these two mustards, this one is the stronger tasting one. If you prefer a milder dijon mustard, I would stick with the Hearty Spicy Brown, but if you want a real taste sensation, then stick your finger or spoon or pretzel into a jar of Harvest Coarse Ground and make your tongue smile with happiness. When you go to the Grey Poupon website, it recommends foods that the different mustards are especially meant to complement. One food for the Harvest Coarse Ground flavor is deviled eggs! I think that would be awesome and I am sensing some in my very near future!

Did I mention that I really like mustard????

January 11, 2008

Which Presidential Candidate Matches Your Views?

I have a dear friend that has taught me a great deal. We share some common interests: Ebaying, yard saling, auctions, homeschooling, animals, good books. But on political issues we are about as far apart as we can get. We rarely talk politics but lately with all of the excitement of having so many viable candidates, we have talked some. Today she sent me a fun link that enabled me to answer about 20 questions and then I was matched with the proper candidate. And sure enough, we are both at least interested in people from our respective parties, even though we lined up with different people than she and I both are pulling for.

Interestingly, the guy that I matched up with is not the guy I am pulling for for President. But if the test is accurate and my beliefs link me up with him, I should look again. After all, there are so many positions out there, if a test can help me narrow down my options to the one who thinks the most like me, isn't that who I should choose? The sad thing is it is only a 73% match. Why don't you go see who you line up with out of the many that are running. It is fun:) And the bobbleheads you get are cute for placing on your blog!


Free Ebook!

Today is Fabulous Freebie Day at The Schoolhouse Store. And one of the Freebie's you can get is my Hummingbird Ebook. All you have to do is purchase my American Bison ebook or my Komodo Dragon ebook. Is that a great deal or what???? So go ahead and get two of my books for the price of one! There are lots of other great items at The Schoolhouse Store!

January 10, 2008

Book Review and Giveaway! Deliver Us From Evelyn by Chris Well

I wrote everyone's names on slips of paper and Katrina closed her eyes and picked a name. And the winner is Laura from Laura Williiams' Musings! Congrats Laura! I have emailed her for her snail mail addy and will be getting this book out soon. Keep watching for contests. I have five lined up for the last week of January and so I don't have anything to give away this week. But I'll be back next week with another great giveaway!


A couple of months ago I won a couple of books by Chris Well. I had not read this author before and I am always on the lookout for new books. Deliver Us From Evelyn is a good story and if you like a thriller/mystery type story, this is a book for you to check out. Personally, I didn't like the style, but once I got past that, I enjoyed the story. There are several stories going on at once and they all converge in the end. So one chapter is about characters ABC, then another is about character D, then there is another chapter about XYZ, then a chapter about charcter E and then we come back to ABC again. I have always found that type of writing to be a bit confusing to follow. But once I got all of the characters straight in my mind, I enjoyed the tale that included scams, detectives, gangsters, a loud mouth woman, and a secret...okay a bunch of secrets

Go ahead, give it a try This may be a new favorite author for you and remember the book is free, so just comment below and I will include you in the drawing!

I will hold the random drawing for this giveaway on January 16th at 6 pm. This drawing is open to all U.S. citizens. If you are in a different country and would like to enter the drawing you are welcome to do so - you will just have to pay shipping and handling. I can accept paypal.

Good luck!

Things That Go Scratch In The Night

4:40 a.m. scratch, scratch..rustle...rustle....

I am suddenly wide awake and laying very still....trying to hone in on the sound. Did I imagine it?

scratch, scratch, rustle, rustle....

There it is again! And I know exactly where it's coming from...the bags that I have stashed under one of the dressers in my room. But what could be making that sound? A mouse...sounds awfully big for a mouse... Hans Solo? No, couldn't be, he's in his cage and is too small to make that much noise.

Okay...must turn on the light... streeettch...click...light everywhere. Heart hammering and wondering what wild creature is under my dresser.

I am sitting bolt upright in my bed...eyes trained on the dresser. There is no way I am going over for a closer look, it can either come out or go away to whereever it came from...

Wait, I see it..MIKKA!!! It's our grey cat! What the heck is she doing in the house. We didn't let cats in last night! And how did she fit under there? It's not that much space under that dresser...after all, I packed it full of present bags. She comes out, jumps on the bed, purring and all happy to find someone awake to pet her.

I guess she slipped in last night when we were bringing in groceries and no one noticed. Scared me to death she did. It was very hard going back to sleep after that too.

Red Letter Day - January 9, 2008

Yes sirree folks, yesterday was a red letter day here at the Markham Household....

1. We got to meet up with two new homeschool families and they both have boys in the age range of Jack! Now that is awesome because I am always looking for kids in my kids age range. And one of them knows a homeschooling girl in Katrina's age range. I am keeping my fingers crossed!

2. We went and after an hour of paper signing and final negotiations, I drove away in my Xterra. I don't have any pictures because it was after dark when I got home. I'll try to get some today before the rain begins. We were sad to see them take my car and they only gave us 100.00 for it on the trade in, but their mechanics are pretty sharp. They took it for a spin, came back and said it had major mechanical problems and they were glad I was getting out of it... Tell me somethiing I didn't know. Still it was a great car and we will miss her.

3. And last, but certainly not least...during the evening hours sometime between when I was putting away groceries and doing the days dishes...I had the 10,000th viewer visit my blog!!! COOL BEANS! I am humbled and grateful that so many have popped in to see what I have to say!


January 9, 2008

Math Dilemma

Math is not my strong suit. Really. I mean, I do well enough with it. I can add, subtract, multiply and divide. I can even do this in my head with up to three digit numbers. I can double recipes. I can figure out tips. But I have forgotten a lot of the terminology. I don't go around spouting things like 'whole numbers' and 'communicative propertry...if I even spelled that one right. And I have forgotten how some of these things work. Add to that the fact that math is laid out differently for children these days (different rules and steps). Math is not my subject. Fortunately, my children are great readers and they basically teach themselves math. They read the lesson, do the problem, I check it and we move on.

But sometimes...Jack gets well...stubborn. He knows math isn't my subject. He also must harbor doubts about my ability to use the solutions manual to check his school work. Yesterday he had a problem and he put down the answer was 200. I checked the answer book...wrong answer. I don't look at the problems to see why he got wrong. Part of his next day's math is to go back and correct the wrong problems. If he can't figure it out, then I wade in and do my best to help. So he is redoing the problem and he says, but Mommy, 20 x 20 is 200. I looked at him (hey, I don't need an answer book for this) and said, no it's not. So he very patiently started doing the problem step by step so he could show me how confused I was....Meanwhile, I turned to his sister (2nd grade) and asked her what 2 x 2 is. She answered with 4. Turned back to Jack...his cheeks reddened, he blustered a bit and then does his spiel...about "Mom, the answer is 400, I don't know why you were trying to say it was 200. What's wrong with you?" And we all laugh as he tries not to be too red faced with his very simple mistake.

Don't get me started on how yesterday when I was reviewing prime numbers with him, that I forgot 2 is a prime number...hmph! Now, just ask me some questions about Sparta and Athens and the ancient Greeks...I'll keep talking for hours!

January 8, 2008

Rare Albino Alligators Stolen In Brazil

Rare animals are a great source of income to black market animal sellers. Two baby albino alligators that were recently stolen from a Brazilian Zoo will net the thieves about $10,000 each in the United States.

Albino alligators have never been found in the wild, probably becaus of their inability to hide from predators.

Assisted Living - Improving?

My grandmother was diagnosed with cancer Christmas of 1992. She was only 66 years old. That was her last Christmas with us. Over the next 11 months, she underwent chemotherapy for lung cancer. She wanted to remain in her apartment and she lived 3 hours away from her only child and grandchild (mom and me). One of my mom's cousins was able to take her to therapy and my mom and Jim went to visit just about every weekend. For awhile, the chemo seemed to knock by the cancer but with it came horrible side effects that made my grandmother miserable. Food, one of her greatest joys, all tasted bad. Her nails grew too thick for her to care for properly and her hair fell out. My grandmother had always prided herself in her appearance and this was a double blow for her. The cancer was only held at bay for awhile. In September of 1993, it advanced and she ended up in the hospital. The cancer had spread to her brain, her spine, and her thorax. She was not able to return home and Mom began to look for a care environment for her.

We found a nursing home that seemed good, but in the end turned out to be sadly lacking. They certainly could have benefitted from new products such as assisted living software which would have helped them to keep track of schedules and provide better care. Instead, my grandmother was not moved as she should have been so she developed horrible bed sores.

She had lost control of her lower body due to the cancer in her spine and her arms were barely under her control, but sometimes she would try to do for herself and in the process might knock over something instead of picking it up which was her intent. The staff at the nursing home said she was demented and needed to be in an elder care psych unit. Her body was filled with cancer, and the staff was cutting back her medicine leaving her in pain. I spoke with the physician (a retired gentleman in charge of like 6 nursing homes...geez!) He said 'well, if you want her snowed under, I can snow her under...') My grandmother was dying and in pain, I wanted her as comfortable as possible and if that meant snowed under, then that is what Mom and I wanted.

As the nursing home facility took steps toward having her committed, it was necessary for them to send her to a hospital for a medical evaluation. When the hospital saw the condition she was in, they were also horrified. They took care of her bed sores, put her on continuous morphine drip and we had her moved to a medical facility (about 100 steps above the nursing home). And she spent the last few weeks in relative comfort, under excellent care and was even able to have some good conversations with us, though with the cancer in her brain, she often didn't know who we were.

Mom and I were unprepared, as I imagine many people are as to how to care for a dying relative. Some are able to care for their relative in their homes. My mom and I both worked and that was not an option for either one of us. We did our best to find a good facility, and we still messed up. With the Internet, I it is easier to do research and determine the good facilities as opposed to the not so good. Please, should you find yourself in that position, do some research and make your choices carefully. There are too many horror stories out there, and our elderly can do so little for themselves.

Hans Solo Moves In

Where to begin this latest saga....should I begin with the death of Ella, the hamster named after Ella Enchanted. Or perhaps I should begin with the Xbox 360 that hubby won at a convention and that he purchased the game Legos Star Wars For? Or maybe the story begins with a little girl who loves animals and has been asking for a new kitten (never mind we have four cats and two rabbits).

No matter where the story begins, it ends with a little girl finding a hamster that suited her just as much as a new kitten (thankful sigh from mom) and whom had to be named after her current movie favorite: Hans Solo. What I can't figure out is why my daughter always likes the rogues...first Barbossa and now Hans Solo.

At any rate, Hans is pretty cute and he is very bright eyed and happy!

She doesn't look happy at all, does she?

And doesn't he have a nice playroom for when he is out of his cage? Those clementine orange boxes sure come in handy!

January 7, 2008

Our Home Movie Theater

Here at the Markham household we take our movies very seriously. We live about 30 minutes from town and with two children and the travel time, it has always been cheaper to rent or even buy movies and watch them at home. Several years ago, my husband began his home theater quest. We have five, count them, five speakers. Two on the walls behind us that will make you jump because it sounds like people are walking up behind you or bullets are whizzing by. Then there is a center speaker and two large speakers to each side of the TV.

Then we have our sofas arranged in "L" style (not enough rooom for theater seating). We have a receiver that runs our satellite, karaoke machine, HD DVD player, and XBOX 360. The TV is a large flat screen plasma HD TV. So we grab a movie, put it in, turn out the lights and we have our home theater, only better. There are no crying babies, no one's cell phones ringing, no people talking out loud, no heads between us and the screen and we didn't have to spend $6.00 just to get to the theater! It doesn't get any better than that. Well, there is one thing missing...but hubby's birthday is in May, so maybe I could get him one of those
home theater popcorn machines...now that would complete the ensemble!

The Great Escape

Whoa...What's happening? Who's lifting up my nice cozy abode?? Hey! Put me Down! What's this place? It's dark and smells funny! It's an earthquake! Everything is shaking! And what's that beeping sound? Oh goodness, more shaking! Is this the end of the world?

Slamming...rumbling...ahh...stillness...sort of...At least this thing I am in is still, but I still sense that I am moving. I have got to get out of here!

Nibble, Nibble. Chew. Gnaw. Nibble.

I can see light!

Nibble, nibble, chew, gnaw. Nibble.

Ah ha...more light

Nibble, nibble. Chew, Gnaw. Nibble.

I'm free!

Scurry, scurry into a dark corner. I sense I am still moving, but things are slowing down a bit.

There are those loud bangs and funny sounds again. Strange, alien sounds.

More loud sounds. I crouch down, trying to make myself as small as possible. I can see one of the large ones pick up the small box I escaped from and pointing to my fine escape hole. They start looking around. I scrunch up even more.

The sounds fade, there is light behind me...I scurry towards the light...only to see...a large nose and whiskers and big eyes! What is that monstrous thing...it's wagging tail, it's dripping tongue? It is looking straight at me as if judging whether or not I would make a tasty snack

I'm being lifted again!

"What's going on? Does the monster have me? I'm going to die!" I am cupped in the alien's hand as a voice says, "You are going to be called 'Lucky'. You are the luckiest hamster in the world because Beethoven was just getting ready to have you for lunch."

I am not sure what those strange sounds meant, but now I am behind bars where no huge monsters with dripping tongues can get at me. Safe and sound. I guess I am pretty lucky!


The above story is a true one and none of the names have been changed. Lucky and Beethoven have both passed on, but their story lives in our hearts forever! I have written this for Scribbit's January Write Away Contest.

This Dog and I Have a Lot in Common - We Love Snow!

This fellow is just having too much fun!

Things That Start With the Letter 'M'

My buddy Laura at Laura Williams' Musings is doing this, and I thought it would be fun, so I decided to join along:)

Here’s how you play. Use the first letter of your name to answer each of the following categories. They have to be real places, names, things…nothing made up! Try to use different answers if the person in front of you had the same first initial. You CAN’T use your name for the boy/girl name question. Here goes nothing.

What is your name? Melissa

4 letter word: Move!

Vehicle: Monte Carlo SS (I owned this dream car once)

City: Moneta (where I met my husband)

Boy Name: Michael

Girl Name: Monique (my name in French class as there is no French version of Melissa)

Occupation: mother

Something you wear: mucklucks (sp? These are what mom called furry boots I wore as a kid)

Celebrity: Madonna

Food: Monkey Bread

Something found in a bathroom: Mildew

Reason for Being Late: IMonkeying around

Cartoon Character: Mickey Mouse

Something You Shout: Move it! (hmmm...that bears a striking resemblance to my first answer!

Want to play along?

Let me know if you are playing along by leaving me a comment so I can come check yours out. Leave me the link and I'll update this post with your link.

If you don’t have a blog, just play along in the comments.

1. Jen at My Three Boys and I

2. Your link here.

January 6, 2008

Ants Are Tricked Into Caring for Butterfly Larvae

Ants are known for their hard-working ways. There is a rare butterfly in some parts of Denmark that is able to trick ants into caring for its young at the expense of their own young. The scent of the larvae mimics the ants scent and they think it is one of their own and they will carry the larvae back to their colony and care for it. I guess it could be worse...at least the butterfly doesn't eat the ants once it grows up!

January 5, 2008

Preparing The Caprice for Departure

We still have a few more trips to make in the Caprice. Tomorrow we will be going to church in the morning and in the evening the children will be going to Awanas. Monday afternoon we have piano lessons. And Tuesday is the day I think I will pick up the Xterra, but if it has to wait until Wednesday, Tuesday afternoon we will be running our normal weekly errands. However, since we only have a few trips left and today was reasonably warm and we had some time, we took a couple of hours and cleaned up the car.

The kids emptied all of their junk personal possessions and trash that had accumulated in the pockets of the door and seat. I windexed the windows, took out repair bills with my name and address on them as well as my maps and a few other items I had in the car. I pulled off my county sticker (I can transfer that to my new vehicle) and I cleaned off the licenses plates as they will transfer to the new vehicle as well). Then we vacuumed. And of course we had to take photos for posterity. It's a beautiful car and has been a good car. We will miss her.

Jack and Katrina wanted a picture with the car too. Katrina begged me to save the car until she was old enough to drive. She becomes so attached to things. In the first two pictures, the car is in our driveway. In the last picture, our car is in front of hubby's office. Not much to look at, but it gives him a place to get away and get some work done.

Insure Your Family's Health with Affordable Health Insurance

More and more Americans are having to drop health insurance coverage because the cost of it is just too high. And with the price of everything else from gas to groceries to clothing going up, up, up...the money has to come from somewhere and since salaries aren't increasing as quickly as the prices of everything else are going up. So people have to make choices and health insurance is often one of the things to go. Because it usually frees up 100s of dollars a month and that money can help with other rising costs. In the short term, this seems to be a good choice, but in the long run, with the cost of doctor visits, medicines and treatments rising exponentially, health insurance is a necessity. Don't get caught without health insurance, there are affordable choices out there, you just have to do some research.

Chilly weather Calls for Chili

It has been chilly this week and just the right weather for a big old pot of chili. So today, I got up and got pulled out my Fix It and Forget It Cookbook. I wanted to try a different recipe, because it is good to try new things. So I perused some yummy looking recipes and then chose Colleen's Favorite Chili by Colleen Heatwole of Burton, MI. And it smells so yummy!

Just in case you are feeling like chili, I thought I would share:

2 medium onions, coarsely chopped
1 - 1 1/2 lbs ground beef, browned and drained
2 garlic cloves, minced fine, or 1/2 tsp garlic powder
3/4 cup finely diced green peppers
2 14 1/2 - oz cans diced tomatoes, or 1 quart home-canned tomatoes
30-32 oz beans-kindey, or pinto, or mixture of the two
8-oz can tomato sauce
1/4 tsp beaumonde spice, optional
1 tsp ground cumin
1/2 tsp pepper
1 tsp seasoned salt
1 tbsp or more, chili powder
1 tsp dried basil

1. Combine all ingredients in slow cooker.
2. Cover. Cook on low 8-12 hours, or High 5-6 minutes

Variations:

1. Add 1 Tbsp brown sugar to mixture before cooking.
2. Put in another 1 lb eans and then decrease ground beef to 1 lb.

January 4, 2008

No Quiet

Today was a busy day. Had errands to run. Got to go see my lovely new vehicle and it will be ready next Tuesday for me to bring home as far as we know. I took down the Christmas tree and the last of the decorations and got them all safely tucked away for next year.

I priced items for a yard sale coming up in a couple of weeks that I am in charge of. It is for the kid's 4-H club. Then I made some signs because we are also having a raffle and a bake sale. I had phone calls to make and got those knocked out pretty easily. I had a thank you note to write and dishes to do and laundry...

So here it is after 11 and I am trying to catch up on emails and trying to think of something clever or interesting to blog about it, but it is hard to gather my thoughts. Why? you ask? Is it because it is late and you are tired? Is your mind cluttered with worries or thoughts?

Nope...the reason, I can't get my thoughts together is because my husband loves karaoke and when he comes back from Illinois it is what he wants to do to unwind. I like karaoke okay, but he and the kids love it. They have particular favorites like Kung Fu Fighting and Y.M.C.A. and My Way. They stand here in our living room, singing loudly and shamelessly and for the masses of squirrels and birds and cats gathered out side. Ahhh...no peace and quiet for writing tonight. But tomorrow is another day.

January 3, 2008

Christmas #4 - With Mom and Jim - Major Surprise ahead!

Today, the kids and I went to my mom's to celebrate our Christmas. She still had her Christmas decorations up so it felt very Christmassy. We handed out gifts. I had given her and Jim a few books to read. The children had picked out a couple of figurines ( a church and lighthouse) and a pair of gloves for each of them. My mom loves lighthouses and Jim is a pastor.

They had been shopping while in New England. And they came home with darling presents. Some handcrafted. Katrina received a lovely horse pin, an antique hair clip (with sparkly pink rhinestones), one of those fluffy scarfs that are so popular these days, a bible sticker book (Old and New Testament), a lovely angel ornament made with a seashell, and a beautiful doll that looks a lot like Katrina.

They gave Jack a star maker (projects stars on the ceiling), an aqua projector (kind of like a view finder), bible sticker books (Old and New Testament), an angel ornament, and a Mancala game. They gave me a set of new Corelle dishes, some lovely new glasses for the kitchen, and this year's William and Mary Christmas ornament.

After presents, we had a lovely lunch of grilled cheese sandwiches, carrots, doritos and wonderful Christmas cookies. My mom makes awesome cookies! Then my mom told me Jim wanted to talk to me and she would chat with the kids.

We went back to Jim's office and he told me that he and mom had been very concerned about my car issues (remember...cracked head gasket). Well, they wanted to purchase us a new vehicle. They had already picked one out and they wanted my okay on it. It is a 2003 Nissan Xterra. I am still in shock. I will pick it up next week. I am Praising the Lord for answering one of my prayers in an unexpected way.

Here's what it looks like, though this one isn't mine.

January 2, 2008

This Place Is Going to the Cats

Had a busy morning. Not going to bore you with the details, but it included laundry, making quiche and baking cookies as we prepared to visit friends this afternoon. We visited Jack's best friend's family for the afternoon and had a very nice time. The kids hadn't seen each other in awhile and really enjoyed their time together. Karen and I got all caught up with what we had been doing in the last few months.

I stopped to get gas on the way home...boy, was it chilly! The current temperature is 24 with a windchill of 12!!!!! Before coming down to the house, I stopped across the street at the office and emailed Daniel some files he needed in Illinois. Then, I came home to get something warm to eat and sit down at my computer...but others had gotten to my spot first!!!

The cats aren't inside very often as I am allergic to them. Not as bad as I used to be, so I guess I am outgrowing my allergy. This means I can let them in on very rainy or snowy or cold days. And they are making themselves right at home.

Midnight and Cuddles are two of our four cats. Betcha can't tell which is which! Cuddles is the most unusual colored cat we have ever seen. In fact, we haven't never seen another colored like her. And see how she matches the sofa!

After I snapped those pictures, they decided it was time to move to another spot, so I got to sit in my seat and blog away...ahhhh....

New Year's Quiche (Also Known as After Christmas Quiche)

Back, when BooMama was having her Christmas Tour of Homes, I found a yummy recipe for Christmas Quiche at Annie's Eyes

And I made that recipe for Christmas breakfast and it was very yummy. I love quiche, but it is one of those things I don't make very often, truly, I am not sure why.

Anyway, I had ham left from Christmas. I have eaten ham and cheese sandwiches until I though my nose was starting to look a bit like a snout...and don't get me started on my tail! So what to do with? Well, I could freeze it and use it in green beans, but I don't make southern style green beans very often. I could make ham salad, but I don't really care for that...thinking, thinking (smell the smoke?)

AH HA!

New Year's Quiche was born!

1 1/2 cups shredded cheddar cheese
1/2 cup chopped pepper (I happened to have some red on hand)
2 tbsp onion
1 cup cream
5 eggs
ham
1 deep shell pie crust

Prepare the pie crust.

Whisk the five eggs, then add in the cream, onion, and pepper in one bowl.

Using another bowl, put in the 1 1/2 cups of cheddar cheese and a couple of cups of ham (more or less...I didn't actually measure it.) Mix the cheese and ham up, then put in the prepared pie crust. Pour the egg mixture over top (go slowly with this giving the egg mixture time to sink into the nooks and crannies or else it will run over the side of the crust).

Bake for 35 minutes at 350 degrees. (I have to say that it took my quiche 1 hour and 5 minutes - not sure what the difference in time is).

This was very YUMMY!


January 1, 2008

2007 Bloggy Recap

Many of the blogs that I visit are doing a review of their blogs previous year. Either by linking to a favorite or most commented on post for each month, or sharing a few posts that summed up that month or sharing the first line of the first post of each month.

So many choices, which to pick, which to pick...Well, since I didn't begin blogging here until the middle of February 2007 (previously I was blogging at HomeschoolBlogger). And since for the first 6 months that I blogged, I only had about 500 visitors total and hardly any comments (however, 9000 visitors have come by since the middle of August which amazes me), I decided to share the first sentence of the first post of each month and the first sentence of the last post of each month...just to be different:)

January...not here at Melissa's Idea Garden

Februrary...Introduction I have been blogging for a couple of years now. Miracle Baby Now 14 Months Old 13 1/2 months ago, Woody Lander stopped breathing for 30 minutes after suffering a massive heart attack at the tender age of 2 weeks.

March...Wii Mania If you don't own a Wii, you should definitely put it on your list! Review: Valentine by Tom Savage I haven't read any of Tom Savage's books before.


April... Review: Crash Last weekend my husband and I watched the movie "Crash" which received 3 Academy Awards in 2005, including Best Picture. Review: The Pursuit of Happyness The Pursuit of Happyness stars Will Smith and is inspired by a true story.

May...Mother's Day Project: Monet's Garden A couple of months ago, I borrowed a book from the library on Art. Fresh Air Child Update We are in touch with the local Fresh Air representative and she has put an application in the mail to us.

June... Our Next Year Curriculum I have been pretty much patchwork on curriculum over the past years. Stuffed Green Peppers I continue to make recipes from the file my mom gave me 20 years ago.

July ... Seafood Salad for 4th of July Below you will find the recipe for tonight's dinner. Homeschool Open House 2007: My Entry Tiany at Less of Me, More of Him is hosting an awesome open homeschool open house!

August...Summer of the Monkeys This evening the children and I watched Summer of the Monkeys. August Give-Away Please note that this is a sticky post and will be at the top of my page until September 1st.


September...Book Contest: The Meeting of Ani Adams Karen over at Mommy of Three is having a book giveaway for what looks to be a very interesting book: The Meeting of Ani Adams.Haiku Carnival with PrizesPlease note this is a sticky post and will be at the top of my blog until September 30th.

October... 6 Die From Brain-Eating Amoeba in Lakes I prefer to pass on happy news, but when I read this article I was shocked and felt like it was something I wanted to make more people aware of. Halloween PicturesTonight was the night...you won't believe who we saw wandering about on our deck...

November...Laura tagged me for the 10-20-30 Year Meme Laura wants to know what I was doing 10, 20 and 30 years ago. Another Question - No Follow! Would someone please explain what 'no follow' means?

December...December 1 - A History of Art - The Lindisfarne Gospels Today's art work is an example of early medieval art.2 Book Reviews: Chocolate Beach, A Dropped Stitches Christmas and a GIVEAWAY!!!! Okay, let's get the New Year started off right!


In 2007, I wrote 760 blog posts and received 868 comments! Thanks to all of you for making this fun (and for reading!

Book Review: The Ultimate Life by Jim Stovall

Last month I won a copy of The Ultimate Life by Jim Stovall. This is actually the sequel to a book called The Ultimate Gift. Now I hadn't heard of either of these books, but I beg your pardon as there are so many books out there, it is hard to keep up with them and I am not a best seller list watcher. Anyway, this book is a keeper and I am looking forward to getting the first book (and I have already put the movie made from the first book onto my Netflix list. This book is a book we could all use to help guide our lives. If everyone in the world learned to really appreciate the 12 gifts the world would be an awesome place to live.

Here are the 12 gifts:

The Gift of Work
The Gift of Money
The Gift of Friends
The Gift of Learning
The Gift of Problems
The Gift of Family
The Gift of Laughter
The Gift of Dreams
The Gift of Giving
The Gift of Gratitude
The Gift of a Day
The Gift of Love

In the first book, The Ultimate Gift, the reader gets to follow Jason Stevens through a year where he learns about these 12 gifts and how this learning changes him.

In the second book, The Ultimate Life, his learning is put to the test and the reader follows him through a year of putting what he has learned into practice. The book is inspiring and uplifting.

If you are looking for a life-changing book to read this year, I highly recommend these two books by Jim Stovall. Some of these gifts you may be aware of, some you may have overlooked for one reason or another. All of these gifts are available for everyone.



Man Saves Year's Worth of Trash

Now this is an interesting idea! A man in California saved every piece of trash (except for food scraps as he composts those) that he generated in the last year and has them stored in bins in his apartment. The article says that he saved every tissue, bottle, scrap of paper that he used and that he hopes an artist will use it as some kind of art.

First I would like to commend him for only using that much trash! If I kept our trash for a year, then our house would be covered in trash bags, I feel pretty sure. I wonder about a couple of things. He kept every tissue...does that mean the ones he blew his nose on? Does that include what every paper products he used in the bathroom? Or how about napkins and paper towels. Forgive me, but that all seems like it would be pretty darn disgusting!

Also, he says he kept plastic bottles, but what about recycling? We, I am ashamed to say, generate large amounts of trash. We compost our food. We recycle mixed paper. We haven't yet returned to recycling plastic, cans or glass because 1) in the country you have to go a bit out of you way to do that and 2) I don't have the space to store three more recycling containers.

So how about you? Could you keep a year's worth of trash in bins in your home, would that hold it all and would there be room left for you?

A Prayerful Moment

I would have thought shopping was out of people's systems by now, but the stores were packed today! So everywhere we went there was a line. Walmart was the first line we stood in (after spending an hour traipsing around the store). And while I was standing there I gave the kids each 50 cents to go spend in the game room while I waited. At that moment, I saw the red stone that was in my change purse.

A month or so ago, the pastor did a children's moment on we can use things to help us start off a witnessing moment. He gave each of the children a blood red stone and told them they could carry it in their pocket or change purse. Then he said, when you are paying for something, that red stone will be there and perhaps you will be asked what it is. You can tell the person that it is a reminder of Jesus that you carry with you. A reminder of the ultimate sacrifice that he made for you. Our pastor also made these stones available to the adults in the congregation.

So I put one in my wallet and today while I was standing in line, getting out my gift card and coupon and debit card, I saw that red stone. I took it out and held it in my hand and thought about what it represented to me. Then I looked at the long line I was standing in and the line beside me and I prayed for each person in that line and for the cashiers as well. I prayed for their general well being, for God to touch their hearts and to bless them in 2008. I prayed for patience, good humor, and love for each of them. And as I looked at each person, if there was something I noticed, I would add that into my prayer. Like the lady who had three children and was looking tired. Or the woman who seemed like she was in such a hurry.

It was a wonderful way to spend my time waiting in line. I highly recommend it!

HAPPY NEW YEAR (in my best newly born 'Frosty' Voice)

Wow, here it is 18 1/2 hours into the New Year of 2008 and I haven't done any blogging today!!!! What the heck is up with that!?

Today is a holiday for many, but I have been busy. First let's back up a bit to New Year's Eve. Last year, Katrina didn't make it. She was awake until 11:40 and then fell asleep. At 5 til, I tried waking her...I would have had better luck waking a dead person! I couldn't even get her to open her eyes! So this year, we were expecting another missed midnight. Mostly because she was up at 6:30 a.m. with her friend, Kaylie, who had spend Sunday night at our house. So she made it until about 11:10 and as she nodded off she implored me to wake her up (did I mention last year she woke up after midnight and was angry that we hadn't gotten her up - never mind I had shaken her, tickled her, lifted her into a sitting position).

Anyway, at 11:50, I began the wake-up process, and when she heard me say Miley Cyrus was on the television, she opened her eyes, joined in a toast, saw the last few seconds of 2007 slip away and then promptly returned to sleep! Oh well, at least she got to see the ball drop and I didn't get fussed at!

So on to today.

I slept in until 8:30, then checked emails and read a few blog posts. I had my devotional time. I read a story out of an old Guideposts Anthology, two pages out of a DK family bible (which provides interesting history and archaeology facts about parts of the bible) and read two chapters of 2 Kings. I also wrote in my prayer journal. I spent time taking down the outside Christmas decorations and a couple of the inside Christmas decorations. I showered, got my grocery list together, and rounded up the kids to go to town.

We hit Wal-mart with the $50 gift certificate I received from Dad and Dianne. Plus I returned some pjs that my MIL had gotten me that were too large and I didn't need. I left with toilet paper, a bra, yarn for an afghan I am going to start working on, 20 lbs cat food, big bag of pine bark mulch for the rabbits, a crochet hook, and boots for Katrina (the child wears flip flops and boots and occasionally dress shoes and that's it - forget tennis shoes). We went to Game Stop so they could spend their gift cards from their brother Bruce and his roommate, Ryan. Jack purchased Sims2 Castaways for the Wii and Katrina purchased Legos Star Wars the Complete Saga for the DS. They were both very pleased. Then it was to the grocery store to stock up on supplies.

Home, unload groceries, dinner, and now I am trying to get in some posts. I stil have my HTML to study today and 1 1/2 bottles of water to drink, but I am on good track for my first day of the New Year! I hope you all are too!