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February 29, 2008

Fun in Las Vegas

For my 30th birthday, my husband surprised me with a trip to Las Vegas. We stayed at a lovely Las Vegas hotel named the Monte Carlo.

We had a wonderful time. We saw a magic show, enjoyed marvelous buffets, swam in the pool and gambled a bit. The buffets were amazing, inexpensive with lots of choices! The casinos make most of their money on the floor, so rooms, food and drinks are inexpensive. Of course, you have to be careful with the drinks, and you should go to Vegas with a plan and with an awareness.

Our plan was to limit our gambling money to 50.00 a day. And we stuck to that. Much like you would have a budget for entertainment on any trip. Be aware of how the surroundings are set up to pull you in and keep you there. Ladies and gents will come by and offer to bring you the beverage of your choice for free (alcoholic or not). Of course that keeps you at your spot until they come back with it because you are waiting for the drink to return. It also keeps you on the casino floor - you don't need to leave because you are thirsty. And if you take them up on the alcoholic drinks, your inhibitions lessen and before you know it, you are spending more and more and more.

Also, the casinos are set up in a way to keep you circling around. There is no clear cut way to the exits and this keeps you wandering around in the casino. And don't discount the hynoptic effect of the darkened room, the bright lights, the sounds of slot machines and the sounds of coins falling into the tray as people win. You can lose track of time and when you hear others win, you get to thinking that it is inevitable that it will happen to you too.

So, if you go with your head screwed on straight and a budget, you can have fun and enjoy the many things Las Vegas has to offer (great shows, amazing hotels, great food).

February 28, 2008

We May Be Country Bumpkins...maybe....

Today we went to pick up Daniel from the Roanoke airport. When we 'go to town', we mostly go to Lynchburg which is 2/3 the size of Roanoke. So going to Roanoke is always a bit different. Anyway, we went to the airport today and when we went in to meet Daniel, Katrina noted the escalator. It has been awhile since she has seen one. In fact, airports and a couple of the high end department stores are the only places around here that one can find this marvelous invention.

So the up escalator was busted, but the kids didn't care. They happily ran up the stairs in the middle and went down the escalator a 1/2 dozen times before Daniel appeared. Now, I know the place to take them for exercise!

Katrina also wanted to go through the revolving door, but we skipped that fun this time...

I just wish I had had my camera! The rapture on Katrina's face was priceless!

February 27, 2008

Carnival of Homeschooling, Week 113

Miss Amanda at The Daily Planet is hosting this weeks Homeschool Carnival. It has a Presidential theme. Sorry I forgot to post this yesterday. Be sure to drop by and enjoy some interesting homeschooling ideas!

Children's Book Reviews: Cinderella and The Empty Pot

We read two wonderful books this morning that we borrowed from the library that I thought I would share with you.

First we read Glass Slipper, Gold Sandal: A Worldwide Cinderella by Paul Fleischman and illustrated by Julie Paschkis. I saw this on one of the endcaps and read the book jacket cover:

"Once upon a time, in Mexico...in Iran...in Ireland...in Zimbabwee...

There lived a girl who worked all day in the rice fields...cooked in the royal kitchen...tended the cattle...then spent the night by the hearth, sleeping among the cinders.

The girl's name is Ashpet...Vasalisa...Sootface...Catskin...Cendrillon...Cinderella.

Her story has spanned centuries and continents, changing to match its suroundings. Now Newbery-winning author Paul Fleischman and illustrator Julie Paschkis braid its many versions into one globe-spanning tale, a hymn to the rich variety and the enduring constants of our cultures."

This story is enchanting and the illustrations are wonderful! The Cinderella lover in your house will love it! I did!

Next up for today, we read The Empty Pot. As we continue through the Story of the World we are currently studying China. We have read several books on China which you can check out in our Kids 2008 Book List.

The Empty Pot by Demi is wonderfully illustrated and tells a fantastic story about the virtue of being truthful. Every parent will enjoy this tale right along with their children.

Interesting Links from My Hubby

My Hubby sometimes finds the coolest stories to send me links to and today there were a few, so I thought I would share them with you, my faithful reader! Enjoy!

1. Temperature Monitors Report Widescale Global Cooling - The two things I have to contribute to this is that a few months ago I read an article that reported that there was also global warming on Mars and it was due to solar activity (since there aren't people there to mess things up). And as a sociology major in college, numbers can be manipulated to say whatever you want them to say.

2. Easy Do-It-Yourself Ghost- This is so cool! And you will want to mark it for your next Halloween party!

3. Maze Design - I enjoy doing mazes on paper. And when we first moved here I thought it would be neat to build our own shrubbery maze, but we never did. Here are some mazes that make my head spin! They were created to be complex and interesting.

4. My Favorite Liar And lastly, here is a brief post about a professor who kept his students attention from day one and helped them learn rather dry material!

Happy reading!

February 26, 2008

Meet Midnight, Cat Number Four

Midnight is my cat. When we adopted the three sisters that you have met in the last few days, we decided to let them have one litter before getting them neutered. They all got pregnant about the same time and their kittens were born within a week of each other. Altogether, we had 14 kittens!

At first the cats had them scattered around hither and yon, but we were afraid that would make the kittens too wild, so we placed a big dog house at the front and brought the kittens to it. What we thought was really cool was that the sisters would nurse one another's kittens. They didn't care at all. At any rate, there was a kitten (cream and peach color) that I wanted to keep, but we had two wild boys that were more shy, so we decided to keep them because we were afraid we would have a hard time giving them away. We named the orange tiger cat, Fido. He belonged to my husband. Unfortunately Fido ran away or was taken away before he was 1 year old. We never could find him. The other cat was mine and I called him Midnight. Okay, not very original, I know, but at least there is no doubt about which one I am speaking of when I say his name!

Of the four cats Midnight is by far the smartest. He can also be the most annoying. Midnight yowls like a Siamese cat. And he yowls when he wants inside, when he wants outside or if I am late making sure the food gets to him. When I let him in at night, he often starts yowling around 3 a.m. to let me know it is time for him to go out and hunt!

He is affectionate, but in short bursts. He loves to be petted for awhile and will actively demand that I do so, but when he is done, that's it..away he goes.

He is sooo smart. Let me give you some for instances:

1. Our bedroom door does not latch when it closes unless you pull or push until you hear the click. If we neglect to do that, Midnight goes over, stands up on his hind paws and pushes the door open and goes in. The door is imbalanced though and will swing shut behind him, though it is not latched. So he will then proceed to work at opening it from the inside. He has almost succeeded on a couple of occasions.

2. He understands all about counting down. Guess he learned it from watching the children. If it is getting ready to rain I will call the cats to come in. The other day, I did this and Midnight was sauntering down the path through the yard. Well, I wasn't going to hold the door all day so I told him so. I said "Midnight, get down here now, 5, 4, 3...." As soon as I said number five he started running! No lie! My children saw it! It was the coolest thing I have ever seen!

So now you have met all of my cats. And even though I am sure you know what Midnight looks like, here are a couple of pictures...just in case!



Movie Fascination

People have been fascinated with moving pictures since 1877 when a series of photos showing a horse galloping were created. It is hard to pin down the first movie. The first short was in 1890 and titled "Strongman Sandow". The first short with a story line was "The Great Train Robbery" in 1903. And the first full length feature movie was "The Story of the Kelly Gang." The first full feature color movie was "The World, the Flesh and the Devil" which made it's debut in 1914.

People flocked to the movies. It was great entertainment. It opened up worlds previously ownly discovered in books or by first hand experience. Westerns (as you can tell by the titles above) were the most popular. Because when movies began being created, the call of the West was upon everyone, but not everyone could go.

Moving pictures entered our homes via televisions. While there were televisions prior to WWII, the amount of televisions sold skyrocketed after World War II. Licensed television stations started popping up across the country in the late 1940s. People gathered around the television for news and for entertainment. Over the years television brought us all close together. When we landed on the moon and Armstrong took that first step, televisions around the world were tuned in and people watched together.

As technology has improved, televisions have gotten better and now many people have a complete home theater. They have speakers, a receiver, a VCR or DVD or HD DVD or Blu Ray player to go with their television set to maximize their viewing experience. And for those who prefer to watch their movies at home instead of paying huge prices at the theater and then being stuck listening to people talking, cell phones ringing, babies crying, and heads in the way. And they want that experience to be a prime one. So they are creating home theaters complete with home theater furniture. There are chairs, special portraits for the wall, posters, popcorn machines. Everything you could possibly want to create the perfect home movie watching experience.

We have a bit of that in our own home, but until we move or the children grow up, we don't have a room dedicated just to that. It would be cool to have though!

February 25, 2008

Meet Cuddles, Cat #3, and A Sugar Update

Well, as promised, here I am introducing the third of our kitty sisters, Cuddles. Cuddles is a sweet cat and the only one that regularly puts up with Midnight (my black cat and he is either her son or nephew, but that is another story). Cuddles is the most unusual colored cat we have ever seen. In fact, we have never run across another cat colored just like her. Jack was 4 when Cuddles came to live with us. We told him he could choose her name and he picked 'Cuddles'. He said it was so cuddly!

Regardless of her name, Cuddles prefers to be on her own. She will let us pet her some, but then she wants to be on her way. In fact, it took us three tries to get her photograph for this post! She prefers being outdoors to inside.

Here she is...cuddling with her favorite person in the house.


Well, the no sugar plan fell through Friday evening and didn't get better for the rest of the weekend. But I am back on track today. I had to take a break from exercising too. The exercise bike had my knee twinging and twitching by Friday afternoon. I am giving it a few days off, then I will try again but wear my brace and see if that will work.

I think what threw me off the rails was weighing on Friday morning. After a week of no sugar, I thought I would have lost some weight, but I hadn't and that disappointed me. My patterns are so dang predictable!

Choosing A Business Logo - An Important Step

My husband has had his own business since 1996, and I sold on eBay for about four years. One of the most important things you learn when you are in business is marketing. You have to market your company in order to get others to know it exists. An important first step is coming up with a name that reflects what your company does and a name that is unique.

From 1991 to 1996, my husband was a freelance writer. At that time, he called his business Kreative Kreations. In 1996, when he started up his computer business, he began an S-corporation and called it Bedford Technology Group, Inc. It reflects where we live and what he does. When I began selling on eBay, I tried various ideas, but decided yesterdayshopes fit me. I wanted to sell things from yesteryear (collectibles, toys and books). I even had a 'store front' sign that I then placed on my invoices and business cards. When I branched out, I made up a new business card that had a smiley face with dollar signs for eyes, and a picture of a garage sale. My intent was to show people I could turn their unwanted items into cash.

But I am embarking on a new adventure. I don't have the space to keep a large inventory at home and so I am looking into other things I can do. I have a knack for writing, I am learning html and web design and I like helping people. I found out about this cool website where I could create a logo design via a free demo. Then if I liked it, I could also create business cards. The site enables me to play around quite a bit until I find just the right logo for me.

I want to get my new business off on the right foot with a symbol that expresses my attitude and that logo will be with me as long as this business last. Below you can see the steps I went through to create a business logo for myself.

After going to LogoYes.com, I clicked on the free demo. First I got to choose what type of logo I wanted: High-tech, Bold, or flair. I chose flair because these symbols embody creativity and being customer-oriented.

Then I went to step 2. Here I picked my industry. That was a bit hard for me, but I settled on Computer and Internet.

In step three I had the opportunity to pick from several computer/internet related symbols, I went with the hands category because I want to give people a helping hand.

In step four, I typed in a name and a catch phrase under my symbol, and I selected the font I wanted to use.

In step five, I chose the color for my symbol and I resized my symbol. I could also rotate it or flip it if I wanted to.

Here is the completed logo.

Once I had chosen my logo, then I could translate that logo to a business card. As you can see there are a variety of layouts to choose from. Choice is good and it helps to narrow down the possiblity that my business cards and logo will look like someone else's.

So, now I am all set. It turns out that LogoYes.com made the creation of my logo and business cards a breeze. Now I have to get to work on the hard part...finding customers!

February 24, 2008

What Are You Reading Tag

I was tagged by Laura for What are you Reading.

The "tag" says:

turn to page 123 of the nearest book, go to the fifth sentence and post the next three! Then tag five more people.


"The sea oats belong, but the rest of that sh-- has no business growing without irrigation. Somebody better investigate, that's what I think."

"My daughter and I went exploring one day."

This comes from Duma Key by Stephen King. This is his newest book which was published in January.

I am tagging the following to share their reading material:

1. Laura at Heavenly Homemakers
2. Sherry at A Bibliomane Amidst the Butterflies
3. Lizzie at Writing to Inspire
4. Bebemiqui at Young Mom in the Big World
5. Mama Zen at The Zen of Motherhood

Cats, Cake and Cabin

The other day, we introduced you to our piano playing cat, Mika. Mika is one of three sisters which we adopted into our home in the spring of 2001. She is actually the cat of my oldest stepson, but when he moved, we didn't feel it was right to separate the cats from one another, so she stayed with us. She is grey and sweet and her name is Africa for racoon (think Pocahontas - which is not why Bruce picked that name, he just wanted something different).

Since we love all of our cats, we thought it would only be fair to give each of them equal 'air time'. So today, I will introduce you to Katrina's cat, B'lana. Now B'lana is the alpha cat in our little gang. She rules the roost. She is also the largest of all four cats (largest around). We don't know why as we feed them all the same feed, but she is a heavy cat. B'lana is named after B'lana Torres from Star Trek Voyager. B'lana is a Klingon and very sure of herself. When we first got these kittens, our B'lana let us know right away that she was on top of things. She was the boldest of the three and the most adventurist.

B'lana is more like a dog than a cat. Her favorite place is curled up on the sofa next to me. Even though she is not my cat, she often seeks me out. I think it's because I am the best 'petter' in the house. She loves to have her neck scratched. And she prefers being indoors to outdoors, but we make her go out in the hopes she will get some exercise. A couple of quirky things about B'lana is her bent tail. It is bent at the end and has been that way since she was born. Also, she drinks water, not by lapping, but by dipping her paws into the water bowl and then licking the water off of her paws. So without further ado, here is B'lana and Katrina...

This past week when we were at the grocery store, Katrina asked to buy a funfetti cake mix and icing because she wanted to make a cake. So I said 'okey-dokey.' So yesterday morning, after I made pancakes for breakfast and brownies to take to today's church luncheon, she made her cake. I got out the ingredients and she did all the work. I did share with her a tip that I was told long ago by a caterer. Her cakes were always so moist. She told me that instead of water, she used milk. So when I went to get the milk out for Katrina, I noticed we had some leftover heavy cream from some ganache I made for a Valentine's cake. So we used heavy cream. It is amazing how much thicker it makes the cake batter. The cake baked up quite lovely and it got rave reviews.

We decided to take the cake with us when Katrina and I went to see my dad and stepmom at my dad's mountain cabin. But it hadn't cooled enough for us to ice before we went. So Katrina iced it once we arrived. As you can see, she took her job very seriously(and note the glowing eyes in the background)!


While Katrina worked on the cake, Granddaddy and Dianne were busy checking out the microscope we had brought along. They were looking at a piece of Fred's hair and marveling over the barbs on it!




Here is Fred, the owner of the hair and the glowing eyes. Fred is the largest housecat I have ever seen in my life. He is laying on a double bed in this photo next to my daughter's guitar. I don't know how much he weighs, but he is large!

Katrina was very happy to show Granddaddy how strong she was. She helped him unload this wood and he paid her a dollar. She told him she would be happy to come back and help anytime!

Then we went for a walk. My dad owns 51 acres that backs up against National Forest. He is having some logging done because the trees are starting to die. They are near the end of their life cycle. This is one of the stumps.

Here is another picture of that stump, with Katrina sitting on part of it. Simply amazing!

All in all, we had a lovely day. You may be wondering where Jack and Daniel were. Daniel was stuck in Illinois due to bad weather Friday night when he got ready to fly home. Jack was at a birthday party and learning how to ice skate.

I Love Comments!

I just want to thank each and every one of you for commenting on my various posts! It really makes blogging worth while. I want you to know that I answer each and every comment (except the kazillion I get during things like Bloggy Giveaway Days). My email is a little strange though and gets thrown into spam folders by some. So if you have left comments and haven't heard from me, my email is melissamarkham (at) takethemat (dot) com. Be sure to put me on your 'safe' list so I can answer your questions and comments!

Have a fantastic day!

February 23, 2008

National Geographic Headlines: Archaeology, Astronomy, and Animals

If you have read my blog for any length of time, you know that i love learning about animals, space and anything to do with archaeology. I have been so busy with cleaning and homeschooling and life, that I am a bit behind with sharing the interesting things from National Geographic. I have over 90 stories to wade through. I only share the ones most interesting to me here, and currently, I don't link to the videos because my computer is getting a tad ancient and I can't watch the videos anymore (there is a new laptop in my future...probably April), but I don't want to link to videos when I don't know what is in them. Anyway, since I don't want to right up a kazillion posts to catch up, I am going to briefly share links that interest me in this post in order to get caught up. And maybe some photos to.

1. Mysterious Pyramid Complex Discovered in Peru - what fascinates me about stories like this is the fact that we find pyramid and pyramid shapes all over the world. This vast ceremonial site is believed to have been used by a little known ancient culture, Vicus.

2. Ancient Maya Used "Glitter" Paint to Make Temple Gleam - A new study of paint flakes taken from masks on the temple's exterior found that the Maya used mica to make the temple's colorful paint glimmer in the sun. It appears, glitter paint has been around for a long, long time! We love glitter paint in our house. We used it on our snowmen, our pine cones and whatever else we want to give an extra sparkle!


3. National Geographic shows the best photos and images anywhere! Check out this cool image of the highest known mountain in our solar system. Click on the link for other cool photos.

4. Flying Lemurs With "Backpacks" Reveal Gliding Secrets - high tech 'backpacks' have been attached to flying lemurs that help scientists better understand flight dynamics and wing flexibility. We continue to learn from the natural world around us.

5. Farmed Salmon Decimating Wild Salmon Worldwide- we farm salmon because we love to eat it and we don't wish to fish the animal into extinction. But our farming of salmon is causing a different kind of harm to the wild salmon. Another example of how hard it is to predict what our actions will do to the world around us, even those we think are good.

6. Egypt's Earliest Farming Village Found - archaeologists are now learning about the people who lived in Egypt during the late Stone Age because of the discovery of an ancient farming village. Egypt has always interested me. One of the many interesting finds in this village is the remains of domesticated wheat, barley, pigs, sheep, and goats—all imported from the Middle East or Turkey. This adds a new chapter to the history of Egypt's contact with foreign cultures in pre-pharaonic times. Cool stuff!

7. Lake Mead May Dry Up by 2021 - I visited Lake Mead back in 1994. In my mind, I picture a huge, beautiful lake. It doesn't sound like it is as large as it used to be. One of my biggest fears is the decreasing amount of freshwater in our country. That scares me far more than global warming.

8. New World Settlers Took 20,000-Year Pit Stop - it appears that the Asian ancestors of the Native Americans didn't just waltz across the Bering Strait. And it appears that more of them made the trip than previously thought.

9. Rare Sandpipers Found in Myanmar - 84 rare spoonbilled sandpipers have been found on the coast of Myanmar. This is giving conservationists hope regarding this endangered species that normally breeds in Siberia may have other as yet unfound breeding grounds, since out of the 84 discovered on Myanmar, only 1 was from Siberia. I love good news, don't you? And look at what a cool critter this guy is!

10. Rare Egyptian "Warrior" Tomb Found - Based on the coffin's inscriptions and pottery found near it, experts date the burial to the early reign of the 11th dynasty, which lasted from 2125 to 1985 B.C. Soldiers played an important role in society during that time, when Egypt was reunified after years of civil war.

Some intact burials from that period had been found in the 1920s, but the leader of the new excavation, Jose Galán of the Spanish National Research Council, said the new find could offer a fresh look into the era's burial customs.

"It's fairly uncommon to find nowadays an 11th-dynasty intact burial. This is really remarkable," Galán said.

And check out this amazing photo! Look how beautiful this is after around 4000 years in the ground! Isn't that amazing!?

11. And here is another smattering of excellent photos. My favorite is the baby monkey with its mama.

The red titi monkey was born in January to his mother Yara, but the zoo chose Valentine's Day week to announce the birth after giving the baby a few weeks to acclimatize in the biome, according to a news release on the Zoo's Web site.

12. Early Mars Too Acidic, Salty for Life, Experts Say - So water probably did exist on Mars in the past, but it was not habitable to life as we know it. Too bad...

Well, I still have 44 NG posts to peruse through, but it is time to get ready to go. Jack is going to a birthday/ice skating party and Katrina and I are going to visit my dad and stepmom for the afternoon. Toodles for now!

A Musical Afternoon

Yesterday afternoon, our 4-H Homeschool Nature Group met. The crafts for the day were musical instruments. My son decided not to come. The class is really geared towards younger children at this point. Here is what we did.

First we made banjos. You take two sturdy, deep paper plates. One you paint on the back with your beautiful design. The other you cut a whole out of the center, and then you paint the back of that plate with a beautiful design. Once these masterpieces are dry, you glue a paint stirring stick to the back of the plate for the neck of the banjo, then you glue the plates together(back parts facing outward), then you make strings with rubber bands. Of course pictures are worth a thousand words, so check these out:

E and Katrina are working on the back of the banjos. They both borrowed painting ideas from one another.

L proudly shows off his lovely banjo!



Katrina plays her completed project once we get home (btw, you are probably wondering about the monkey around her neck. Long story, but the monkey is special to her dad, and he didn't make it home this weekend due to weather problems that would have made an already short weekend turn into a few hour visit. So she is wearing the monkey because she misses her daddy). Also, if you look closely, you can see her science fair project on the table. She is making a volcano. We still need to spread on plaster of paris and paint it.


The second thing we did was make fun wind chimes. We used mason jar rings and hemp twine. We used pieces of copper pipe (aren't they pretty) and tied them onto the strings, then tied the strings to the mason jar lid. Then you put ducktape around the lid to keep the strings from all moving to the same spot. The hardest thing was getting the pieces the same level so they would hit against one another because the pipe pieces were different sizes and lengths. Some people used washers tied at intervals down a piece of string. Those were very pretty too. Here's Katrina modeling her windchime once we got home.



Lastly we made bells. Take a small clay pot, a piece of hemp, two small washers and some beads or washers. We used four or five pony beads for the clapper. String the beads onto the piece of hemp. then string the washer, tie a knot onto the washer, then push the string through the bottom of the clay pot. Then string the other washer and tie a knot onto it. This will keep your clapper in place. You can hang it up from the remaining string if you like. Be careful. Clay pots break easily. All three boys dropped theirs to the floor.



We all love a little music! Make your own musical instruments and have fun!

February 22, 2008

Sugar Slip, Piano Kitty, Found Treasures

Okay after four and 2/3 day of no refined sugar, I ate a piece of fudge this evening. And the stupid thing is I didn't even really want it. It was there. I got it out to throw it away and I just couldn't do it. I have a strong don't waste food problem. But tomorrow it is back to no sugar and I am going to throw the rest of the fudge away. I have to. I have resisted cakes, brownies, Golden Corral buffet, and my normal grocery shopping day treat. But I was overcome by peanut butter fudge...so out it must go. However, going almost five days with no refined sugar is good and I have met my goal of exercising five days this week and I have been drinking tons of water.

Jack and Katrina are supposed to practice piano 6 days a week. Somedays it is hard to fit in the practice with everything else that goes on. One of the things that intrigues us regarding practice is that Mika, our gray cat, really is intrigued by the piano as you can see below. Sometimes, she sits on the bench next to Jack or Katrina and merely listens attentively, somtimes she tries to play along.

I have told you about our big clean up we have been doing. Yesterday I spent some time cleaning up a couple of spots in the den. I collect boxes for shipping. I have some items left over out of a bunch of stuff I sold for a friend back in November, December and January, and I have a bunch of stuff that the kids want me to sell for them. It was all a bit messy and I got it squared away. I also straightened up a small area of our homeschool shelf which was amazingly pretty neat.

Anyway, all of this cleaning has led to us refinding treasures that had been stuffed into closets or hidden on shelves and forgotten. When my children were very young, they got an easel for Christmas and when they were small and it was out in the playroom all the time, they used it regularly, but other things came along, the easel got put into the closet and not used very often. Well, we took it out and decided we could take it outside and set it up. Can you imagine a better place for an artist's easel?

Just in case you aren't sure, there are birds, waves, and fish in this lovely drawing. Katrina loves the beach.

Katrina also rescued four dining room cushions. I removed them because they were coming apart. Katrina took them out and placed them under the two picnic tables on the deck. The cats like them very much! But they weren't in residence at the time of the photo.

A "Love"ly Lime Story

If you are visiting my blog, but you haven't visited Scribbit, I would like to encourage to go visit. She has a lot of great posts, recipes and crafts and she shares about Alaska. But perhaps, one of her neatest features is the Write Away contest she has each month. And this month's winner was a winner in more ways than one.

The theme was about love and her story "The Lime Popsicle" is guaranteed to warm your heart and dampen your eyes.

February 21, 2008

Is A College Education The Way to A Successful Future?

Yesterday, I visited Barbara Frank's blog and found a very interesting article there on the Gloomy Stats about Colleges and Jobs. Before you read my piece further, I encourage you to read what she has to say. She has some great stats and comments that will make a jumping off place for this post. Go ahead, click. A new window will open up and then you can come back here when you are done. Don't worry, I'll wait.

There, are you back now? Are you depressed now? Have you had in the back of your mind that college is the way for your children to achieve the American dream? Don't be depressed, you have just gained a great advantage, you have been told that there are other options. That you don't have to spend the family fortune or push your children deep into debt for a degree that may not be anything more than a lovely piece of paper for the living room wall and experience in the latest drinking games.

Now, don't get me wrong, I went to College. The College of William and Mary to be exact. I was the first person on my father's side of the family to attend college and graduate with a four year degree. I had known my whole childhood that I would be going to college. I am an only child and my parents worked hard to put me through college. I worked in college but it was for extra money and when I left college, we owed about $10,000 (which was 1/2 the cost of my stay in college). I treasure the time I spent at William and Mary. I learned a lot about life there, was able to learn independence within a protected setting and I have a really great degree in Latin to hang on my wall.

I graduated in 1988. My degree didn't help me attain any of the work I did in my life. I had a Bachelors of Arts with a Major in Sociology and minor in Psychology. I wanted to go into social work, but I had the wrong degree for that, turns out I needed to have a degree in Social Work. Go figure! I thought about Guidance Counselling (I am really pulled towards working with children). When I was in school my guidance counsellor was awful and she was an ex real estate agent. Turns out that now to be a guidance counsellor you have to be a teacher and have to have a degree in guidance counselling. It didn't matter if I had the heart for it and the resources, i was rejected because I didn't have the 'right degree'. So I spent my first few months out of college working as a patient registrar in an emergency room (checking in people who needed to be seen). Within four months, I applied for and received the job of Office Manager at Parking Services at the College of William and Mary. I loved that job and I did very well with it because I am organized and also because I am good at coming up with incentives and ideas.

My next job was 6 years working with an early intervention program. That job did require a college degree, I think and by the time I left, the requirements had evolved to it had to be a degree in Child Development Instruction. And they weren't grandfathering people in either, you had to go back to school and take classes while working to keep your job! While my William and Mary degree probably looked good on the resume, the reason I got the job was becasue I didn't give a stock answer to one of the questions and it made me stand out. I can attribute that answer to my upbringing and what I learned in Sociology class.

The most I ever made at that job was 22,000.00 a year in 1996. I quit work to try some work on my own ideas and to start a family. I now homeschool my children and do various odd jobs that I can do from home because raising our children here at home is very important to my husband and to me. I do sometimes wonder if my parents don't regret spending the money on my college education. My husband who has two years of college and no degree is one of the top computer consultants in the country.

Anyway, that's my story. I grew up with parents who had high school diplomas and who believed that by me going to college I would make a better life for myself than they had. The reality was I went to school with people who were working on their masters and were telling me they could make more money waiting tables at a high end restaurant than they could if they got a job using their degree. HUH? Surely, it's not supposed to work that way.

A couple of years ago, I attended a local business seminar on behalf of my husband and our business. One of the lectures was about how for kids today, the money to be made is be going technical and entering the manufacturing workforce. Our outdated ideas of what manufacturing is are hurting our country and if we don't get is right in our heads, we won't be able to find anything that is manufactured in the U.S.A. The people who are running the manufacturing plants now are aging and there is no replacement workforce coming up behind them to take those important jobs! There is actually a website that we were told about at the time (unfortunately I no longer have it and wasn't able to track it down through googling different keywords), but it is a site designed to explain to children the value of getting a vocational school experience and going into manufacturing.

Other jobs that I would recommend based on my own personal experience are plumbing, auto mechanics, electronics, people services. And of course with our aging population all kinds of medical professions (therapists, nurses aides, nurses, doctors, x ray technicians) are going to be looking for employees.

The pursuit of knowledge doesn't have to stop with highschool or college, it should be something we do for our entire life. Maybe college when we are 18 is the way to go, maybe a couple of years in the military right out of highschool would benefit our children better or going to a vocational school and right into the work force. Don't be pressured into pursuing the college route, it is not necessarily the way to your piece of the pie.

So here are some articles I found to give you a taste of what is going on in the manufacturing world.

Chicago Manufacturing Renaissance Council - while this targets Chicago, it gives the visitor good insight into what is going on in the manufacturing world. There are some amazing facts on the home page, including that careers in manufacturing average 64,000 a year including benefits.

Here is an article from the Chicago Jobs Council that talks about a high tech manufacturing camp.

Here is another article from the website Goliath that talks of recruiting high school students into high tech jobs. Scroll down a little bit for the actual article.

I hope you have found this post informative and interesting. It definitely gives us parents something to think about when discussing future careers with our children.

Why A School Banned Legos...

Yesterday, my husband sent me a link to an article on why a school banned legos. This article came from Rethinking Schools Online and I will warn you, it is a very long article.

Basically, it is about an afterschool program. The children started building lego town. They would bargain for pieces, they built a variety of buildings, and they became possessive. The town stayed up for several weeks and the teachers noted that other children were being rebuffed. They were told they couldn't play with the Legotown because it belonged to the kids who had been working on it. Apparently, instead of complaining to the teachers or instead of the teachers stepping in (as they obviously saw what was going on), the kids who weren't allowed to play with the Legos acted like they didn't really want to play anyway.

This continued until an unforeseen tragedy occured(and I can't help but wonder how long it would have continued. It seems to me the teachers were using these kids as part of an experiment.) Anyway, the accident was some other children from church were allowed into the room to play and Legotown was destroyed (much as if Godzilla had come through).

So then the teachers felt this would be a great learning opportunity and took the Legos away while trying to come up with a way to make the children see the inequity of some having the power and others not. They had teacher meetings and long conversations with the children. I admire the fact that they wanted to let the children have a say in the matter. But I feel like the teachers had already decided what they thought the outcome should be and that they focused on the parts that went along with their philosophy of sharing ane equality.

For instance, the teachers set up a trading game. They wanted to show the children about how things beyond our control could affect some having power and others not (I guess this is reflective of the people born to wealthy families in our society). Anyhoo...the teachers assigned points to the legos and then passed around the lego bucket and told each of the children to pick out 10 legos. They didn't tell them about the points thing. Most children picked a variety of colors. Well one child picked 8 out of 10 green (and apparently, they were the last 8 in the box) because green was his favorite color. Well, the teachers then told the children that the legos were worth points and through trading their goal was to end up with the most points. All of the legos were worth varying points - the more common the color, the less the points. The green ones were worth 5. The winner would get to choose the rules for the next round.

First of all, what child in their right mind would ever trade a green one? And for that matter, if you had a four point one, you certainly wouldn't trade it for a two point one or even a three point one. Even young children can figure that out pretty quickly. So to me it seems the game was a bit stupid, but I digress. Well two children had the higher scores, obviously the one with 8 green legos was one of those. They each got to make a rule. And they made great ones!

One child said that you had to trade at least one time during a round. So eventually he would be out of green legos if no other rule was made.

The other child said that it would be necessary that if you had more than one green lego, you had to trade.

These two children felt they had an unfair advantage and they wanted to fix the rules so that other kids would get a chance. Sure enough at the end of the round, there were three high scorers. Unfortunately the havenots complained about how the ones who had didn't want to share. Did the teachers commend the first two winners for making rules that would ultimately have them down to just one green lego? Did they point that out to the other children? Not according to the post I read.

Instead they focused on the feelings of the disenfranchised and talked about how some children dropped out of the game altogether because they didn't think they would ever win. To me this reflects society as a whole - there are those who even when there are opportunities will sit down and give up because the opportunities seem to hard, there are others who will try and will eventually better their situation and there are those who have who reach out to those who have not. I get frustrated at the people who point to the people who have a lot of money and the people say they don't do enough with it. Yet these same people are usually givers in a big way, if for no other reason than to help offset taxes. Look how much the Gates family has spent on getting immunizations to people in Africa.

At any rate, I digress again. By the end of weeks and weeks of discussion with the kids on power and equality, the legos were brought back into the classroom. The children were encouraged to work in small groups and the idea of ownership was discouraged.. Each kid had a lego person and that lego person could live in different houses or play in different buildings. However only the builder of a building could make changes to the building unless you had permission of the builder. Does that make sense? The teachers are happy because the kids went through this long process and figured out on their own the value of sharing and working together.

Now, call me stupid if you would like (well, I would prefer you didn't, it might hurt my feelings), but most children figure out pretty quickly the value of sharing. It comes when you don't share, then the person you don't share with has something you want to play with and they decide not to share because you didn't share with them initially. I applaud the teachers for wanting to bring the kids into the decision making, but to me it would have been more constructive to have stepped in when they noticed the problem, not waiting until Godzilla had done the hard work for them.

I don't understand why when this 'you can't play' stuff started, the teachers didn't gather the kids together and say something like "The legos are here for everyone's use. We can either start putting the buildings you make away every day, you can let others play in your lego town or you take turns for periods of a week(in other words this week XYZ get to do what they want with the legos and next week, ABC get a turn, and the next week, DEF...) Then the children would have still had some choice in the matter, the children still good have played with their friends and built their cool structures and enjoyed them, and everyone would have had a turn.

I also am very frustrated that it seems the teachers didn't applaud the first two rule makers in the trading game for making rules that would ensure they wouldn't always be the winners. To me, this is a great thing on those kids part because they could certainly have made rules that would have meant they kept the green legos they had, but they did not.

So, there, I have spouted off quite a bit on this subject and I shall shut up now (aren't you glad?). I encourage you to read the story yourself because you may see it differently than I did.

Who knew legos could be so controversial!?

February 20, 2008

Book Launch and Giveaway: Death of a Six-Foot Teddy Bear by Sharon Dunn

UPDATE, the random number generator spit out the number 5. Cindi Hoppes is the winner!

This last week, I had the opportunity to read the newest book by Sharon Dunn. The title is very catchy! Death of a Six-Foot Teddy Bear...has you wondering right away, doesn't it? This is the second book in the Bargain Hunter's Mystery series.


From the back cover:

Another murder mystery for the Bargain Hunters Network - only this time, one of them is a suspect!

Ginger and her husband, Earl, are in for a wild ride in Calamity, Nevada, along with the other BHN ladies - college student Kindra, mother-of-four Suzanne, and sassy senior Arleta. They came to town for the Inventors Expo and some outlet sohpping, but instead they endure lost luggage, broken air conditioning, and a long line of people angry at hotel owner Dustin Clydell. With the inventors Expo and the Squirrel Lovers convention both in town, the Wind-Up Hotel has somehow overbooked.

Before the night is over, a man in a teddy bear costume is found dead, the Inventors Expo is canceled...and the authorities want to talk to one of the BHN ladies! What could possibly go wrong? Once again, the Bargain Hunters swing into sleuth mode to solve the murder - and this time, clear one of their own. Along the way, Ginger discovers something even better than a bargain.

I will be giving away one copy of this book to one randomly drawn, lucky winner! I will mail this internationally, so everyone can join in the fun! Just comment below! I will hold the drawing on February 27th at 6 p.m. eastern time.

If you can't wait for the giveaway or if you aren't one of the lucky winners, you can purchase the book from Amazon.com

February 19, 2008

Movie Review: Mrs. Brown

Today I watched the movie Mrs. Brown with Judi Dench and Billy Connolly. This movie is about the grieving widow, Queen Victoria, and a plain spoken manservent who brings her back to life from her deep sadness. This movie was very good. It was funny and interesting and the acting was fantastic! I know very little about that period in British history, so I have no idea of the accuracy of the movie, but if you like historic movies, you might want to check this one out! BTW, it is rated PG from 1997...however there is a scene where Billy Connolly and his brother are running naked into the surf. It is a side/behind shot, but beware because that is not what we expect to see in those PG rated movies!

What's In A Name?

Name recognition is very important for companies. Think how many names we hear every day that automatically bring images to mind: Coca-Cola, Orkin, Bayer, McDonald's, and Ethan Allen are words we can speak that give us all an idea of what is being discussed. Visual images even come to mind. But sometimes, where you live in the world can skew the image that comes to mind. Or depending on what you do for a living.

When I hear the name Baldwin. My first thought is pianos. We have a piano. My husband and my children play and my mother plays. The next thing I think of when I hear the name Baldwin is General Hospital. I was a big fan back in the 1980s and if you were too, you will remember Lee, Gail and Scotty. Scotty was such a scoundrel! When my dad hears the name Baldwin, he thinks of quality interior and exterior door hardware. My dad is a carpenter. This just goes to show that while name recognition has it limitations, name recognition does work...after all, images did come to our mind!

Movie Review: In America

I borrowed a movie called "In America" from the library and watched it today. It is an excellent story. A story of an Irish family coming to America illegally in search of the American Dream. I am not happy about the number of immigrants coming into our country illegally, but having said that, when you watch this story, it shows us how a family can be drawn by the dream for a better life for themselves. There are obstacles, there are happy times, there are sad times. This movie really touched my heart. You may wish to see it yourself.

From the back of the box:

From Academy Award nominee Jim Sheridan comes this deeply personal and poignant tale of a poor Irish family searching for better life in America. Through the eyes of their daughters, two anguished parents find hope and the ability to once again believe in love and magic...even amidst the dangers of New York's harrowing Hell's Kitchen. With mesmerizing performances by Samantha Morton and Djimon Hounsou, In America is "a classic" you will never forget.

February 18, 2008

Are Holodecks and Holosuites in Our Relatively Near Future?

If you have watched the 'newer' Star Trek series, then you are aware of the term "holodeck" and "holosuite". These are rooms that the people of the future can go into for a variety of purposes. Mostly these rooms are used for recreation. People simply put in a program and viola they are experiencing the roaring twenties, walking through the pages of their favorite novel, or going hiking through astounding vistas. It is like they are really there, with the added benefit of they can't be harmed. There are other people in the programs (who are holograms) and they will interact with you. Pretty cool really except when there is a malfunction and the safeties get turned off, but that is another story.

Anyway, as with so many of the ideas in the various Star Trek series, this one seems to be coming a bit closer to reality.

From National Geographic

Within a few decades movie-goers may be able to watch their favorite flicks in 3-D without the need for glasses, a new study says. University of Arizona optical sciences professor Nasser Peyghambarian and his colleagues have created what may be the first rewritable 3-D display surface, , one in which an image can be replaced with another within a few minutes.

Peyghambarian's team is working to get the time needed to rewrite the surface down to a fraction of a second.

"The ultimate goal would be some sort of 3-D video that doesn't require eyeglasses to view," Peyghambarian said.

Now while this is not a holodeck or holosuite, it seems to be to be a step closer to that technology. When you go to see a 3-D movie and it is done well and your glasses are on correctly, you feel like you can reach out and touch the things on the screen (I remember how freaked out my kids were during a 3-D IMAX showing of BUGS when a little spider appeared to be lowering herself inches from our nose).

So if we could have that same experience without the sometimes headache making 3-D glasses, it would not only be really cool, but a step closer to the Star Trek universe. We already have cell phones (think old communicators). Wonder when they will start making replicators (the Star Trek kind, not the Stargate kind, thank you very much!)


Star Trek food and parts replicator

VS


Mechanical 'beings' that want to take over the world and are very hard to destroy

Huh? What Did You Say?

Let me set the scene...I was deep into a mystery book (The Death of the Six Foot Teddy Bear) which I will be sharing information with you about later this week. And my husband said something...Here is what I heard...

......CAT6....

"Huh? What are you talking about? We don't have 6 cats! We only have 4!" I grumble back, trying to keep my miind focused on my book.

He replied, "I didn't say anything about how many cats we have. I asked if you know where I put that CAT6 cable?"

"What? What are you talking about?" I ask, the magical connection with my mystery story broken.

"It is a computer cable, I need to find it. Do you know where it is?" He asks patiently.

My eyes glazed over... "Nope, no clue." I returned to my mystery book. But in the back of my mind, the term bugged me, so I checked out Wikipedia to see what I can learn.

According to Wikipedia: Category 6 cable, commonly referred to as Cat 6, is a cable standard for Gigabit Ethernet and other network protocols that is backward compatible with the Category 5/5e and Category 3 cable standards. Cat-6 features more stringent specifications for crosstalk and system noise. The cable standard provides performance of up to 250 MHz and is suitable for 10BASE-T / 100BASE-TX and 1000BASE-T (Gigabit Ethernet). It is expected to suit the 10GBASE-T (10Gigabit Ethernet) standard, although with limitations on length if unshielded Cat 6 cable is used.

Yeah...okay...now I get it...uh huh, sure do. Do your eyes glaze over when you are confronted with modern day technical terminology?

Oh well...where did I put that mystery book, anyway?

February 17, 2008

Beware of Phishers

No, that is not a misspelling, nor is it someone who goes out and catches fish! A phisher is a person who tries to entice you to clicking on a button so they can get more information from you and eventually get money or some other thing from you.

Ever since I have started selling on eBay, I get bogus emails. Some looke like they came from eBay, some look like they came from Paypal. But all it takes is a bit of common sense on your part to know the difference.

For instance, today I got an phishing email from an eBay member. This member was telling me that they had paid me two weeks ago, that I had better respond or else they would be contacting eBay, paypal, and the police. Now, my first tip on this was that I hadn't sold anything on eBay in the last few weeks, but let's say I was doing a booming business on there....my next tip that this was bogus was the information I saw when I scrolled down...

Apparently, I had sold this person a small island in the South Pacific! Dang, if I had a small island in the South Pacific, I would be living on it, not selling it! It makes me shake my head sadly over these stupid things. I mean, if you really want to phish someone, why not take the time to find out what they sell so they might do a double take.

But, these guys don't spend that kind of effort, they don't have to. Because, believe it or not, there are people out there who will respond to that very email I was sent. Yep, they'll do it. And they do it because they are worried that someone has gotten them confused with someone else and they are going to have all kinds of problems, so they try to nip it in the bud. So they click. Phishers will tell you, getting that first click opens the door to them and they have a great chance of doing you out of your money.

So don't click! Even if you think this might be legitimate, don't click! You have other options. One is to go to eBay and log in to your My eBay page. If the email you received in your email box shows up there, then it may very well be legitimate and you should check into it further. The other thing you can do is forward the email to spoof@ebay.com. They will look it over and tell you if it is bogus or not. I once got a survey type item from eBay. It wasn't on my eBay page. I sent it to spoof@ebay.com and was told that it was a real message from eBay.

There are all kinds of scams out there to be aware of. But let me give you some clues. Bill Gates is not going to send you money for forwarding an email (neither is anyone else). Those emails about a dying child that make you want to cry - most of them are hoaxes. Snopes.com is always a good place to check out. Once you starts seeing these phoney emails, you kind of get a feel for them. You probably haven't won the lottery in the United Kingdom (especially if you haven't bought a ticket). And it is highly unlikely that some long lost, unheard of relative has died and left you tons of money. The people that are in foreign countries and say they have tons of money, but they can't get to it and they need your help and they will be happy to pay you...they are lying through their teeth (or their computer keyboards).

So, be careful. Take a few moments to think. We all have a bit of a desire to get something for nothing. But usually, there is no such animal. You may laugh at some of my examples, but people fall for these scams every day of the week. That's why the scammers keep doing them.

BTW, I have some ocean front property in Oklahoma that I am trying to sell. If you are interested, drop me a comment below (wink, wink).

Where oh Where Have My Husband's Cuff Links Gone?

My husband is not a fan of men's jewelry. He has owned some lovely watches, but he fiddles with them until he breaks them, so now his cell phone is how he keeps the time. He has a wedding band, but it frets him and it sits on our dresser (don't get me started on that one). He doesn't like fancy key chains - in fact if he could get away with never carrying a key he would be thrilled. He did have a money clip that he liked for awhile, but I think that was because one of the kids gave it to him.

But he does like cuff links. He prefers the French cuff shirts (which are hard to find in our neck of the woods) and he has collected several pair of cuff links that he likes to wear. Unfortunately, he is a bit like the absent minded professor - he misplaces things easily and those cuff links do have a way of getting lost. Does your hubby like cuff links? And if he does, how do you help him keep up with them?

February 15, 2008

Traveling to Missouri? Have you checked into Branson?

We love to travel. It is one of our most favorite things in the world to do. And as we travel across this great country, we add magnets to our United States map.

As you can see, we have done a pretty good job of hitting the east coast (we have only missed out on Delaware and New Hampshire) and we have done a good job with the west coast. Our rule is that we both have to have been to a state in order to put the magnet up on the board. So while Daniel has been to a few states that I haven't due to his work, they don't get counted. We are planning on changing that this summer as we are going to go and spend it in Illinois with him. While there we have plans to visit some other nearby states. Because the midwest is sadly lacking representation on our map.


One place, I am particularly interested in is Branson, Missouri. We are big music fans in our house. We usually get out the karaoke and sing songs at least once a week. We own hundreds of CDs and we love all types of music. Did you know that Branson is known as the "Live Music Captial of the World"? I didn't, but that title certainly has me interested! And if you aren't crazy about concerts, don't let that keep you from visiting this lovely town in the middle of our country.

Silver Dollar City looks like an amazing theme park to visit. With over 30 rides and nestled in the scenic Ozarks, this theme park also offers fun shows and shopping opportunities. When I think of the Ozarks, I think of sturdy folks who lived off of the land and had to make for themselves the things they needed. At Silver Dollar City, visitors get to see those age old crafts being practiced today. And one more thing to whet my family's appetite is Marvel Cave. This cavern looks to be full of gorgeous rooms and a variety of tour opportunities (including lantern tours). And ever since reading the Trixie Belden books as a child, I have had a hankering to visit caves in the Ozarks.

Don't like theme parks or live music? Never fear, there are a variety of other attractions. Railroad rides, state parks, great shopping, go carts, golf, miniature golf, museums, and water rides.

Branson strikes me as a great place to visit with the family as there is something there for everyone! And it will be on our list of places to visit this summer as we try to add more magnets to our map!

Movie Review: Back to the Secret Garden

One of my most favorite books as a child was The Secret Garden by Frances Hodges. I love that story and have shared that love with my children. So I was interested when the recommendation popped ujp for me to borrow "Back to the Secret Gardne" when I was perusing Netflix.

I am always leary about sequels, especially ones written not based on a book. Who knows where this could go and what they would do with/to this magical place.

I want you to know that if you haven't seen this movie, I highly recommend it! This story takes place when Mary and Martha are grown women. Mistlethwait Manor is now a home for orphans. And The Secret Garden is not doing so well. It takes a girl from the other side of the pond to return the magic to the garden and she has to overcome obstacles to do it.

This is a wonderful story and Katrina and I really enjoyed watching it. We give it a two thumbs up!

February 14, 2008

Valentine's Day Party

Today, I arranged for, hosted and set up a Valentine's Day Party for whomever in my Homeschool Party wanted to attend. I was a little disappointed with the fact that there are over 170 people on our list, but only 6 families signed up and in the end only four families came. It is frustrating when you have people saying 'hey, let's do something, let's do something' and then you plan something and people don't come. However, those of us that came did have some fun.

The kids and I got there early and decorated:

We had goodies (but I didn't take a picture). And we had lots of board games. And then we had some fun Valentine's games. We played chocolate tic-tac-toe, pin the heart on the tin man (I really should have taken a picture of that, but I was too busy putting on blindfolds and so forth), and we did the game where you take the words "Valentine's Day" and see how many words you can come up with out of those words. And we played a fun game called Steal My Hearts.

You put conversation hearts in a bowl, give the kids chopsticks and then set the timer and let them see how many they can get out of the bowl before the timer beeps. They enjoyed that as you can see:


Valentine's Day Flowers

Today, my sweetie surprised me with some beautiful flowers! Aren't they beautiful? Thanks sweetie! I love you!

February 13, 2008

Melissa's Amazon Garden

Are you wondering what I have been doing since I finished all of that wonderful baking this morning? Of course you are! You have nothing better to do than to sit around and wonder what I am up to...

Well, wonder no more! I have been busy putting together my Amazon store. This store has items listed that I like and recommend. So far I have gone through the movies. I can tell you that not every movie I like is listed, but there are plenty to look at. So if you are looking for a new movie to walk, you can go check out my store and see which movies I recommend. So far, I only have movies listed. I plan to add books and other items as I have time. And I will add movies as I watch them and books as I read them. It should be fine.

At any rate, if you go to my store and buy something there I will get a percentage of what you spend. So I would love for you to shop via my store. But even if you don't shop there, go by and visit. You can always find neat titles and borrow them from the Netflix or from the library.

So, without further ado, I now open Melissa's Amazon Garden. Let the browsing begin! I would love to hear what you think about it!

Book Giveaway: The Ultimate Life by Jim Stovall

Update: By random number generator (Jack), the number 2 was chosen and Lesha was the lucky winner! I have contacted her to let her know.

A month or so ago, I won the book "The Ultimate Life" by Jim Stovall. This is a wonderful book and it is the sequel to "The Ultimate Gift." I had not read "The Ultimate Gift" but this book stands on its own and after I read it, I borrowed the movie based on the first book and both are wonderful.

In "The Ultimate Gift" a young man is bequeathed an unusual set of gifts that change his life and the lives of those around him. In "The Ultimate Life", the other members of the family are protesting the will and Jason has to prove that he has understood the gifts he has been given and can pass them on to others. It is a story that we can all benefit from. A story that points out how we can make a difference in the world around us and we don't have to have a lot of money behind us to do it. We just have to pay attention to it.

So, I want to pass this book on so that it may bless another reader. What I would like for you to do is comment and tell me what you think would make The Ultimate Life. This is open to all readers around the world. God bless. And good luck! I will have the random drawing on Wednesday 20th at 6 p.m.

Here's What's Cooking At My House: Heart-Shaped Sandwich Cookies and Chocolate Fudge Cake with Peanut Butter Ganache

Yep, Valentine's Day is fast approaching and love is in the air. And a favorite way to show love is with yummy sweet treats for the sweet people in our lives. So today, I am busy baking. I am making Heart-Shaped Sandwich Cookies (a recipe I got from Family Circle years ago and have made with rave reviews) and Chocolate Fudge Cake with Peanut Butter Ganache (recipe courtesy of Scribbit. My house smells so yummy!

Heart-Shaped Sandwich Cookies
courtesy of Family Circle

Ingredients:

3 cups all purpose flour
2 tsp baking powder
¼ tsp salt
1 cup (2 sticks) butter
1 cup granulated sugar
3 large egg yolks
1 tsp vanilla extract
Jam of your choice
2 heart shaped cookie cutters (2 inch and 1 inch)


Directions:

1. In large bowl, mix together flour, baking powder and salt
2. In second bowl, beat butter and sugar until creamy, 3 minutes.
3. Beat in yolks and vanilla
4. On low speed, beat in flour mixture in 3 batches, until dough forms. Divide the dough in half, cover and refrigerate for 1 hour.
5. Grease baking sheets on floured surface, roll half of dough to 1/8 inch thickness with a 2-inch heart-shaped cutter, cut out cookies.
6. Place on baking sheets. Gather scraps together, reroll, cut out more cookies for total of 40 cookies. Refrigerate 20 minutes.
7. Heat oven to 350 degrees
8. Bake in 350 degree oven for 8 minutes. Don’t let rown. Let cookies stand on baking sheet for 1 minute. Remove cookies to wire racks. Let cool.
9. Roll out remaining dough. With 2-inch heart shaped cutter, cut out 40 cookies, then use 1 inch heart shaped cutter to cut centers out of cookies.
10. Bake bite size cookies for 6 minutes and larger cookies for 8 minutes.
11. Put jam on whole heart and top with cut-out heart. Ice bite-size cookies if desired.

Chocolate Fudge Cake with Peanut Butter Ganache

February 12, 2008

A Delightful Day At Food Lion...

I wanted to let my faithful readers know how my Food Lion 'fiasco' of last week ended up.

For those of you who are scratching your head and wondering what I am talking about, you can catch up by first reading:

Coupon Disaster

Then read:

Coupon Disaster Update

And now for the amazing conclusion....

I arrived at Food Lion today and went to the manager's office. The manager, Mike Mills, welcomed me with a warm smile and for a few moments we talked about last week, about the fact that they now had the coupon list on hand so such an incident wouldn't happen again and about how unfortunate it was that there are those who make counterfeit coupons. Then he told me he wanted to give me a $25 gift card, but he didn't have any gift cards, so that I should do my shopping and when I was done, come up and he would give me the $25 cash for my bill.

So away we went..shopping, shopping, shopping. We had a lot we needed today and there were great sales on things that we like to eat. When we finished, we stopped by to see Mike. He had our $25 and he had picked out a sheet cake from the bakery for us. I told him he didn't have to do that and he said "I know, but you were so great about the whole thing, I wanted to."

So away to the register I went. They opened up a register just for me. He bagged my groceries while the assistant manager checked out my groceries. I had so many great coupons today and there were so many great sales, that I saved over 61.00 in coupons and MVP savings! And throw in the gift card and the free cake. We ended up with 201.00 worth of groceries for 102.00. WOW! I love Food Lion!

Today I Voted....

Yep, this afternoon I went and voted with my children in tow. I had a hard time picking who to vote for. I was wishing I could create a new candidate called McBamaBee - the best of three candidates that I find interesting for one reason or another. But since I couldn't I had to choose one. It was exciting to go to the polling booth and feel like there was still a reason to go (you know, the whole thing hadn't been decided yet.)

Katrina, Jack and I all proudly accepted our 'I voted' stickers.

February 11, 2008

Pay It Forward 365 Giveaway

Jen at My Three Boys and I is playing a fun Pay It Forward Game. Since I joined in the fun at her blog, I am spreading the joy here on mine.

Here's how it works:

  • Anyone with a blog can join
  • The first three people to leave a comment on this post will receive a gift from me. I haven't decided yet what the gift will be. I will be looking for neat items though.
  • I will send the gift in the next 365 days
  • In return you have to pay it forward by making the same promise on your blog
  • See how easy that is?

In honor of the Pay It Forward ideal, I’m quite happy to send overseas, so don’t let that stop you!

That’s it!! Let the comments roll!!

Win Snow Buddies DVD

If you have enjoyed the Air Bud craze and the Air Buddies movies, you and your family is sure to enjoy the Snow Buddies movie! And the only thing better than finding a good family movie, is getting that movie for free! So, eMoms at Home.com is working to provide you with the best! Visit their website for an opportunity to win one of five copies of the Snow Buddies DVD! All you have to do for a chance to win is to comment. But if you want even more opportunities to win, blog about the contest too.

My daughter loves Air Buddies, so I have my fingers crossed for her on this one!

And, after you have commented on this contest at eMoms at Home.com, be sure to look around. There is lots of great stuff there!

Cables, Cables Everywhere

Over Christmas we were watching A Christmas Story. One of our favorites! I always laugh at the parts where the dad is trying to find a place to plug in the leg lamp. We are so out of spaces to plug things in at our house, it isn't funny! And I can't help but wonder about the fire hazard we have created by the miles and miles of cable in our home. Electric cable, printer cables, computer cables, phone cables, earphone cables, recharging cables! It reminds me of another movie moment in Airplane when William Shatner starts losing it becaus of all the lights beeping and blinking! (Maybe I watch too many movies).

Then there are the cables we can't see...the underground electric cable, the phone cable, the T1 cable (yes, we had T1 in the past) and a fiber optic cable. If ever anyone needed to be able to buy bulk cable, it is our family! When we wired our home so that all the computers here and in our office across the street to be connected, we bought cable on a big spool. No one would ever expect our little home in the rural area we live in to be as wired as an office building downtown, but we are. These are the kind of things you have to do when you run your own business a) from home and b) when your home is in the middle of nowhere!

My Blog Is Worth...

May I have a drum roll please.....


My blog is worth $48,550.44.
How much is your blog worth?


So now that we know how much my blog is worth, who wants to loan me some money? I'll put my blog up as collateral!

February 10, 2008

Weight Loss Options

I have fought being overweight my entire life. Sometimes I feel like I should stop fighting and just accept it. I mean, after all, how many years have I wasted, not being happy with who I am? How many dollars have I spent on Weight Watchers meetings, Nutrisystem, weight loss pills, exercise equipment, and other diet plans? But whenever I think I should just let it go and be me. Whenever I fell like giving up, I give it another whirl.

I think counting calories is best and getting regular (not killer) exercise is also a necessity. I think doing weight lifting activities help because building muscles is an important part of losing weight. The more muscles you build up, the more fat you burn. I think drinking water is very important. And I am considering trying one of the diet pills out there. But I worry about them because of potential side effects.

What are your thoughts on the matter? What works for you? What doesn't work for you?

Love, Shower, Wind, Cancelled Flights, and Fire

Today has been a busy day for us. We attended Sunday School and Church this morning where the theme for the day was love. When we came out of church, winds had picked up and tore the car door out of my daughter's hand and blew papers out of a friend's car. We watched as flowers from tombstones were blown across the street.

When we arrived home, it was to three downed trees - 2 at our office across the street and one here at the house. All were old, dead and didn't damage anything.

At 2:45 Katrina and I left for a baby shower. It was her first and the first one I had been to in several years. We arrived at the church, holding tightly to our gifts and purses. We walked in to find the power was out. As we sat at the shower and visited and had snacks, we heard stories about fires, trees down, blocked roads and power outages. We played fun games. In one game, they had set out a diaper bag of items for us to look at. Then later, we had to fill out a piece of paper with what we remembered from the bag. One gal remembered 16 out of the 21 items. I only remembered 13. We played another game where we had to guess the prices of the items. I was only 6.00 off - which I thought was pretty good since I haven't bought baby stuff in years! One lady got within 56 cents! That was so cool!

Then we played a really gross game where we had to look at melted chocolate bars inside of diapers and figure out which chocolate bars they were. I only got one right. That was disgusting!

Meanwhile, Daniel was on the way to the airport, but due to 66 mph wind gusts, the flight was cancelled and he had to come home. We heard from people as they arrived at the shower that people were without power, there were fires raging (600 acres in Northwestern Bedford County and then four fires closer to home in Southern Bedford County).

We picked Jack up and came home from the Baby Shower, Awanas has been cancelled due to the high winds and other problems. Then our neighbor's daugther called. Her mom is an EMS and Ashley was with her a few miles down the road where her mother was helping with a fire. She asked if I would come get her and bring her home. So I did and now we returned home.

The winds have been very bad here all day as you can see by the photos belows, but fortunately, they are supposed to die down in a few hours.

February 9, 2008

Linky Love Tag

Laura at Laura William's Musings tagged me for this meme.

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I have randomly selected 5 of you below to be tagged and I hope that you will similarly publish this post in your blog. You will have to tag 5 other bloggers and just keep adding on to the list. (Do not replace, just keep on adding! Yes we hope it will be a long list!)

It's real easy!

Tag others and see your Technorati Authority increase exponentially!

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The Strategist Notebook
Link Addiction
Ardour of the Heart
When Life Becomes a Book
The Malaysian Life
Yogatta.com
What goes under the sun
Roshidan’s Cyber Station
Sasha says
Arts of Physics
And the legend lives
My View, My Life
A Simple Life
Juliana RW
Mom Knows Everything
Beth & Cory's Mom
A Mind Forever Voyaging
enjoying the ride
Jennifer's thoughts
Mom of 3 Girls
Amanda
Don't Make Me Get The Flying Monkeys
ExPat Mom
Just Jessie
Wilson Six
Krisitn
Nuttier Than You
Shonnte
Summer's Nook
Laura Williams Musings
Melissa's Idea Garden
Eve atConfessions of an Everyday Housewife
ChristiS of the Blah Blah Blog
Stephanie at Stop the Ride!
Diane at Soap, Blings & Girly Things

Amanda at Amanda:Mama's Musings
Kristin at An Ordinary Life
Mama Zen at The Zen of Motherhood
Atomik Kitten
The Sassy Southerner

The last five blogs are ones I added.

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5 Minutes For Mom Ultimate Blog Party!

Ultimate Blog Party 2008 Are you ready for the upcoming Ultimate Blog Party? It will take place from March 7th - March 14th. There will be the opportunity to win prizes, meet new friends and just have fun! I will be participating by giving away a free copy of my three ebooks which you can see on my side bar.

So click on the cool button and find out the instructions now for joining. Mark your calendars and get ready for a week of fun!

Excellent Award

My new friend, Atomik Kitten was kind enough to give me this excellent award. I don't know that I deserve it, but I am honored to receive it! If you haven't met Atomik Kitten, take a few moments and go say hello! She is a straight talker and I love her header too!

I visit so many excellent blogs, I would want to choose just one or two. So if you would like to see the blogs that I visit regularly, then go check out my favorites list. If you aren't on there, let me know. I try to keep it up to date, but I get behind from time to time!


Homeschool Boutique


Back in December I won this shirt for being a participant in Tiany's Holiday Open House. This shirt was provided as a prie by the Homeschool Boutique. It arrived just last week and I love it!

If you are looking for neat Homeschool items, there are plenty of things at the Homeschool Boutique that can tickle your fancy!

For instance, every homeschooled child should have one of these shirts to head off those common questions!

Or maybe a Principal Dad shirt would be to your liking! Go over to Homeschool Boutiqueand take a look when you get a chance. There is a little something for everyone in your homeschool family!

Inspirational Gift Gallery

During Bloggy Giveaways I won this beautiful Bible tote bag from Elaine at Inspirational Christian Stories, Poems, Gifts

This beautiful and durable bag arrvied yesterday and I am so excited. I am currently filling in at my church's Awanas group for a gal who is out having a baby and this tote will be perfect for carrying my Awanas items in.

Elaine is a work at home mom who is in the business of helping others to spread inspiration. Think about it, when you give a friend a gift with a bible verse on it or you carry a purse with scripture on it or drink from an inspirational coffee cup at work, you are opening up the way to witness to others. I would encourage you to support a WAHM and to increase your role in spreading the Good News by shopping at Elaine's Inspirational Gift Gallery.

Remember, while we all may wear our crosses to church on Sunday and carry our inspirational bible covers to church, it is important to show those signs of our belief in our everyday life. So if someone has a question, we are a beacon to invite them to learn more about our Savior. If we don't have any outward appearance of our belief, then we lose that opportunity to reach out to others who might otherwise approach us.

God bless!

February 8, 2008

Sweet Valentine Giveaway

Do you want a chance at receiving these yummy items in your mailbox? Well go visit I'm a Mom, Deal With It! and follow her directions! Hurry, the giveaway ends on February 11th!

Cell Phone Disconnects Look Out! There's a New Phone Booster In Town!

We live in the middle of nowhere...well, at least it seems like that by most modern standards. We cannot get cable at our home. We are nowhere near being able to get DSL. And using our cell phone? HA! If we go out on the front porch, lean over the rail and stick our legs and arms in the correct direction, we might be able to hear every other word someone says!

Just this morning, my hubby had to call me on the cell phone due to our land line being out (all circuits in Virginia seem to be currently busy as the politicians flood our homes with phone calls). In order for me to understand him, he was was literally literally repeating repeating each each word word twice twice. Talk about annoying!

And our cell phone problems aren't limited to our home. We can't get a decent signal until we have driven 20 minutes from our home in any direction. What we really need is a portable cell phone booster. It wouldn't just help us here at home and on the roads near our home. But it would help us to stay in touch as we go about our daily lives.

My husband and son like to hike. Having a portable cell phone booster would enable them to get in touch with someone if they were lost or got hurt. Because, let me tell you there is no cell phone signal in the mountains! Zilch! Zip! Nada!

My husband travels quite a bit and he never knows what the signal is going to be like. A portable cell phone booster would ensure he could get in touch with home and with business associates.

There is nothing worse than being in the middle of an important call and losing the connection. When you run your own business, that sort of thing can cost you a contract. When you run your own business, that kind of loss isn't acceptable. We choose to live in the middle of nowhere, but that doesn't mean we want to be out of touch. We are happy that technology is now providing us with a way to stay in touch whether we are at home, work or play!

With the portable cell phone booster from we will no longer be asking that question: "Can you hear me now? Can you hear me now?" And maybe, just maybe, I can ditch the ancient technology of a land line and have some extra money each month to spend on something important like Starbucks coffee or Breyer's ice cream!

It's Time For Thinking Of Gardening Plans

I love plants and flowers and these last few days of warm weather have got the wasps flying about the house and have me thinking about what plants I wish to plant this year. I am an accidental gardener. I tend to not be very organized and often forget what I have planted where.

For instance, I don't plant a lot of vegetables, but I like to plant peppers and tomatoes as those are two of the vegetables we eat a lot of in our home. So I will plant them, stick the little plastic plant label into the ground and hope that it will last. But it doesn't. The weather comes, the cats come, the piece of plastic gets buried under weeds or broken and by the time the plants start to flower, I can't remember which peppers are supposed to be red and which are supposed to be yellow. I can't remember which are supposed to be the tiny tomatoes, which are supposed to be the best tomatoes for canning or which are supposed to be the best tomatoes for a kitchen sink tomato sandwich.

This irks me! If I was a more serious gardener or had a better memory, perhaps I would need plant stakes to help me figure out which vegetable was which, but since my brain isn't wired that way and I prefer to concentrate on eating the veggies, I must find some better plant labels for my garden.


A garden marker would also come in handy as I try my hand at landscaping. I have plants growing along my sidewalk that I have forgotten what they are. I bought them a few years ago because they were supposed to do well in shade. But when people ask me what they are, I have no clue! And when I drive by people's homes where they have the lovely flower beds, I think I would like to have that too! Since plants are dormant at different times, using garden markers would help me to remember which plant was where and which color was where. And if I decide I don't like the layout and want to remove one type of plant, that will help me keep track of what is what.

Now, I have already had experience with the plastic markers that don't work. I have seen people use the seed packets, but since I don't usually grow from seeds, but from plants, that doesn't really help me out. I am thinking that metal garden markers would be a great choice to try. They are durable, reusable and made in the U.S.A.

What do you use to keep your gardens sorted out and marked?

How Do You Tie Your Shoes?

I have been tying my shoes backwards for my whole life. Why? Because my father taught me. I think he taught me while he was facing me, but I am not positive. At any rate, I can tie my shoes quickly and move on about my business. When I taught my children, I made the effort to learn how to tie like most people do, so I could teach them to tie 'right'. Why I am not sure, after all, it is fun to be different.

Anyway, today my hubby sent me a link to Ian's knot. This is a super quick way to tie your shoe! Once you get the hang of it, you will be tying your shoes faster than ever before! Have fun!

Self-Help Books - Are They Helpful Or More of a Hindrance?

So, what is your opinion of self-help books? I have read a few over the years. My feelings about them follow into one of three categories:

1. I think there is tons of great information, I can't wait to use it and then I am promptly back to my old ways. It is hard to concentrate on changing when it is easier to go through life in your current mindset. You know, take food for instance. I can either take the time to think through everything I eat, this time coming from somewhere - less time spent blogging or taking care of the kids or whatever. And not only do I need to take the time to think about what I eat, but I will need to take the time to prepare the 'healthier' meals. Or I can go along on my merry way, saving those brain cells and that time for other adventures.

OR


2. I find the book to be a waste of my time. The information is common sense or didn't enlighten me or is full of bull and whichever is the answer there, I wish I had never picked it up to begin with.

OR

3. I get overwhelmed. I read pages and pages of vitamins I should be taking, exercises I should be doing,the time I should be setting aside for myself, the time I should be spending on my relationships with friends, children, spouse and parents. I think there is no way that I can ever do all of this and I go into shut down mode, but it is a scary shut down mode, because in the back of my mind I am thinking that I should be doing these things to make life better for myself and those around me and to live longer. And how can I turn my back on bettering myself.

The best answer I have is just not to pick up self-help books. What do you do?

February 7, 2008

Twisted Silver Has Expanded!

Twisted Silver now has an online Outlet. This outlet has items that are in limited quantities and are available at great prices! Go check it out and add some cool jewelry to your collection today!

TopMomma for 1 Day

I'm a Top Mommma!

Well, I only made it for one day...boo hoo hoo! But at least I made a good showing in my 30 hours on TopMomma. I confess to not having a clue asto how it is decided who gets bumped and who doesn't. My blog and two other blogs were introduced yesterday. I emailed friends, a yahoo list I am on, posted about it on my blog and some of my friends sent on the information to their friends. I had about 130 clicks and 140 referrals, the most of the three that were introduced yesterday. The gal with the least of each of these is the only one who is still on their today. Go figure!

But it was fun while it lasted and I appreciate the support of all of you!

Coupon Disaster Update!

I thought I would give you an update on the coupon disaster

I received another email from the lady I have been corresponding with in the loss/recovery department and she assured me that all of the local Food Lions have been contacted and will be trained on which coupons are acceptable and will be given a list of current coupons for easy reference (the ones that Food Lion is offering to registered customers).

She also informed me that the manager wished to bestow a gift certificated upon me for my inconvenience and I could either share my phone number with her or pick it up from the store. I thanked her and told her I would be in to do my normal shopping next Tuesday and would speak with the manager then.

My faith has been restored!

Book Giveaway: Not Your Ordinary "Mom" Book by T. Suzanne Eller

UPDATE: Gloria at Saddeyezz Scraps & Snaps won this week's drawing! Way to go Gloria!

This is another book I received to review from a publicist, but since I didn't choose it and my book shelf is overflowing, I am passing it on unread to one lucky winner! All you have to do is comment below and I will have a random drawing on February 13th at 6 pm. The drawing is only open to U.S. addresses. If you live outside the U.S. and you want to pay the difference in postage (it is usually around 2.13 to ship to the U.S. via media mail), sign up and we can work that out.

From the press release:

Being a mom is a great joy and a great responsibility. But what if you have a painful past, a background that didn't include a good role model for parenting? What if your experiences have given you an unhealthy view of motherhood? How can you be the parent you want to be without dragging along your history?

Good luck!

Book Giveaway: Keeping His Pants Until He Gets Home by Joyce S. Oglesby

Update. Kathy B. was the winner of the random drawing! Thanks for all who entered! I have contacted her via email!


I received a brand new copy of this book from a publicist, but I don't have time to read it and my books are overflowing, so I am passing it on to one lucky winner (and just in time for Valentine's Day too! Well, almost, you probably won't get it before Valentine's Day, but anything is possible.

This giveaway is open to U.S. citizens. If you are outside of the U.S. and want to pay the difference in postage (I will pay what I would normally pay to ship in the U.S. via Media which runs around 2.13), I will be glad to have you join in the fun! Just contact me and let me know where you live and I can let you know what the cost would be to ship it to you.

All you have to do is comment below. I will choose the winner with a random number drawing! I will hold my drawing on February 9th at 6 pm...that way, maybe you will get it in time for Valentine's Day!

From the press release:

Pastor's wife Joyce S. Oglesby inspired to write relationship book out of a heavy heart for couples doomed for divorce without some sort of intervention. Her small town of Corydon, IN is buzzing about the controversial cover and title. Written similarly to the 1970s classic, Total Woman, Keeping His Pants On...Until He Gets Home equips woment to affair-proof their marriages. Maintaining a passionate love in marriage has become more urgent than ever before. The demands on today's woman can distract her from fulfilling her husband's sexual needs. Losing focus of this vital responsibility has many women facing the maladies of matrimony. Joyce says, "You're either too tired, too stressed, too fat, too flat-chested, too mad, too sad, too depressed, too dirty, too clean, too selfish, or it's just too much trouble. All this can add up to too little too late!" Her warning is that husbands can soon become distracted, leading to some form of an outside physical or emotional affair, pornography, or other avenues of release. The book talks about the dangers of boredom and staleness, and how passionless relationships leave couples unfulfilled, and makes husbands prime targets to temptation.

Sweetheart Valentine's Giveaway

Today I made a new friend. Don't you just love meeting new people in bloggy land? Well, not only is Kristin interesting, but she is currently having a Sweet Giveaway!

"Kristin over at An Ordinary Life is having a short but sweet Valentine's Giveaway. It starts on February 6th and ends February 9th, 2008 at noon PT. All you have to do to enter, is post about her giveaway on your blog and leave a comment on the giveaway post. Please be sure to leave a valid email address with your comment."

Trust me, this is one sweet giveaway that you don't want to miss, so go check it out!!!!!

February 6, 2008

Bloggy Giveaways Winners

The time has come for me to announce the winners for my various giveaways from last week! So here goes! Good luck as i spin the wheel!

First- three winners for the Reluctant Smuggler:

#32 - Shay
#42 - Pam
#51 - Michelle B.


Second - one winner for Awaken My Heart

#6 - Hannah

Third - Chit, Chat and Chew Cookies (boy, I wish I had more of these to give away! 261 people entered this contest!)

#39 - Christi

Fourth - Jewelry from ZudaGay

#17 - Rachel

Fifth - Skin MD - 3 winners

#68 - Shama-Lama Mama
#108 - Val
#159 - Tanya

I put those three numbers in the hat and my daughter chose the 4 oz bottle winner - #108!


Sixth (and last) - Twisted Silver Winner -

I used the number generator, but the program I use to capture images has just stopped working. Sorry.

#174 - April

All of the winners have been contacted!

I AM A TOPMOMMA!!!!

Sorry for the all caps, but I am a little bit excited! Okay, today, for this moment, I am listed on the TopMomma website! Do you want to help me stay there all day? Or maybe even more than one day? Then, do me a big favor...click on this referral link and click on my button (Melissa's Idea Garden) when the page comes up! That's all there is too it! Cool, eh?

Of course while you are there, be sure to visit the other TopMomma's too.

Thanks!

Coupon Disaster!

Yesterday morning I diligently made my grocery list. First, I wrote down the items we had to have. Then I went through the sales flyer for Food Lion and chose the items we would be getting for the coming week. Then I went through my coupons. I had four or five that matched with what I wanted to purchase this week. Two were particularly good. We don't buy ice cream too often (don't need it and it is more and more expensive all the time). But the store was running a special on Breyer's - buy one get one free, and I had received a 2.00 off coupon in my email from the grocery store. So two things of awesome ice cream for 3.00, that's a deal! I also had received a coupon in my email from Food Lion where I could buy 15 cans of DelMonte products and get 5.00 off. Another excellent deal.

Went to the grocery store and bought all that we needed and even treated ourself to an extra two containers of Breyer's (after all 8.00 for 4 containers of ice cream is a very accepatable deal). We got up to the register and I laid down my coupons. While I was unloading the groceries, I noticed that the clerk was looking at my coupons. A bit odd, since they usually don't pay them any attention until they have run everything up. Then I noticed an assistant manager came over and looked at them. Since I knew they were legitimate coupons, I figured the clerk was new and they would check them and say, 'yep, these are fine.' I mean after all, the Food Lion company sent them to me in my email box. I printed them out. They are legitimate.

Anyway...next here comes the manager. He gets a piece of paper and starts writing something down. I turn to him and ask what the problem is. He tells me he can't accept the coupons and he is writing the information down from them to figure out where they came from. I tell him these coupons were sent to me from the company and that I have been getting coupons like them every week for months and using them without problem. He says they can't find out where I got the coupons from and he is sorry, but he can't accept them.

At this point, all of my groceries have been processed and bagged. I am not a happy camper and I tell them, they will need to unload the cart and the things that I had coupons for would be staying (I am so proud of the children for not pitching a fit about the ice cream). I wouldn't have bought these items today without the coupons. They weren't things I needed right then and I wasn't sure I would have the money to cover the bill without the coupons. Plus I was more than a bit miffed! Instead of just taking off the 19 items that I no longer wanted, they voided the transaction and then rerung all of the groceries. Needless to say the people in line behind me weren't very happy either.

Before leaving I went to the manager and told him I would like an email where I could forward my email that I get from the company so they could see these were legitimate coupons. He gave me the email address of someone in the corporate loss recovery department.

I emailed her this morning when my email for this week arrived. She just emailed me back and assured me that they were indeed legitimate coupons and she apologized for the inconvenience. And she hoped I would continue to shop at their store. Did she offer to replace my expired coupon with some kind of gift certificate? Heck no...HMPH! They did return the coupons to me and the one for the canned goods is good for another couple of weeks. But the ice cream one expired yesterday and the buy one get one free sale is done too. HMPH!

February 5, 2008

Travel Woes

For those of you who don't know, my hubby, Daniel, has been working in Bloomington Illinois since the beginning of December. He travels back and forth each week so we can be together as a family on weekends. This is not an easy row to hoe under the best of conditions and during the winter, the weather conditions are not the best. I think he has only had maybe a half dozen flights since December that went smoothly. When you figure he is on a plane two times a week and has done that for about 10 weeks now, that's 20 flights. Anyway, his adventures would put Steve Martin and John Candy (Planes, Trains and Automobiles) to shame...well, almost;)

Last Thursday, he went to the Bloomington airport at approximately 11:00, only to find the flight out of Bloomington was delayed by 4 hours due to weather in Bloomington. He was only a couple of hours by car from Chicago and Chicago was where he was supposed to be flying to. So, he and three other guys went in together and rented a car to go to Chicago. Daniel missed his flight by 10 minutes. Weather got worse and he ended up spending the night in Chicago. Friday morning he got on a flight to fly into Roanoke (about an hour from our house). The weather here was bad and icy and low clouds on Friday and he ended up getting rerouted to Charleston, WV for a few hours until the clouds lifted high enough for the planes to land. The drive home would have taken 11 hours. The flight home took about 36 from the time he started out in Bloomington to the time he walked in our front door.

Then yesterday evening we dropped him off at the Lynchburg airport (about 1/2 hour away - he flies from different airports depending on his schedule). We dropped him off around 3 and his flight left around 4:30. He flew to Atlanta, only to discover his flight leaving there was delayed due to dense fog in Illinois. It was eventually cancelled and he spent last night in Atlanta. His flight into Bloomington couldn't be rescheduled until today at 4 pm. This afternoon and tonight, there is going to be an ice storm in Bloomington. Every day he misses from work is no pay, plus it doesn't make the employer very happy when he isn't there either, plus there is the added expense of unexpected hotel stays. So, instead of waiting for the 4 pm flight, he is going to try and see if he can get an earlier flight into Chicago and then drive from Chicago to Bloomington...what a mess! Be sure to stay tuned for more traveling adventures!

February 4, 2008

One Baby Blanket Down...Two More to Go

Last week, I worked frantically to complete one of three baby gifts that I am working on. Time had slipped up on me and one of the three ladies in my church who is expecting in the next six weeks had her shower two weeks ago. I didn't have a lot of money to spend plus, I enjoy giving people handmade items. I feel like they have a longer lasting place in the families heart.

So I decided to crochet a blanket. I found a lovely shell pattern that I hadn't done before and went to pick out my yarn. The first lady was having a girl, so I got two shade of pink and some white. The next gal is having a boy, so I picked out two shades of blue and white and the last girl is unknown, so I picked green, yellow and white. My goal was to finish the pink blanket by Sunday (yesterday) and that shower was two weeks ago.The next girl's shower is this next Sunday so I figured if I got one blanket done last week, I could do another this week. I finished the first blanket at 11:30 pm Saturday night. I am not sure I will get this one done by Sunday or not, but I will give it a whirl. In spite of the fact that I am using the proper size needle, my blankets ended up being 7 inches longer than they were supposed to be, which makes for quite a bit more knitting...In the end, I made a 36" by 45" blanket. Should have been 38" x 38". Unfortunately, the gal was not at church yesterday. She is entering her last weeks and has not been feeling well. So I was unable to give her her gift. I hope to find out were she lives and take it by her house.

Meanwhile, I have got baby blanket number two to get working on. I was making some progress last night, when our power went out during the last five minutes of the Superbowl! We think a transformer may have gone out. It took out everyone in our neighborhood.

Well, must stop typing and get back to knitting. Which kind of baby gifts to you prefer to give? How about to receive? Store bought or handmade?

February 3, 2008

Your Skin Cells Can Clue Others Into Your Sleeping Habits

Research has found that by culturing skin cells in a laboratory and injecting them with a bioluminescence gene found in fireflies. They can determine if the person is a night owl or an early bird!

It turns out that our genetic make-up is probably responsible for our sleeping habits, what is really amazing scientists as that they can make this determination by testing our skin cells.

I can't help but wonder if employers will find a use for this kind of testing. If you have a job that needs a person who is going to be bright and chipper in the morning, they can require a skin test...hmmm are we making the way for 'skin discrimination'?

And that is what I am thinking about today, what's on your mind!?

Perks of Business Ownership

Owning your own business has its perks. When you own your own business you are your own boss. Theoretically you can set you own hours (but if you want to do business with the rest of the world, they better be compatible). Theoretically you can pick and choose which jobs to take (as long as you are paying the bills). You can decide where you want to live and work (if you have a business that allows you to commute or telecommute or ship your products wherever they need to go).

One of the things I like about our home business is the neat things we receive in the mail. There are companies whose business is to help us market our business. The best way to get your name out there and to keep it out there is to have gadgets that you can hand out to others with your name and contact information on them. Business cards are well and good, but if you really want to catch someone's eye, hand them a pocket knife, pen, a magnet with your photo (or the photo of your product), a note pad or a stress ball. All of these are useful items and will hopefully keep your company's name and product in the front of the mind of the person you gave it too. And people love getting freebies! Because we have a business we often receive samples of these marketing devices in the mail. My particular favorite is the marketing pens we get. They are useful and often very sharp looking.

Of course there are always downsides to owning your own business, but if you wish to be successful, it is best not to dwell on them or they will drag you down. If you own your own business, I would love to hear some of your marketing strategies and the perks that come to your mind when you think about owning your own business.

February 2, 2008

A Leatherback Sea Turtle Migrates 12,774 miles

In the longest "ever recorded migration of any sea vertebrate, a leatherback sea turtle recently completed a 12.774 miles across the Pacific Ocean. The journey, tracked by satellite, provides the first record of a trans-Pacific migration by a leatherback.

The giant reptile began the trek in Indonesia's warm tropical waters in the summer of 2003.

Along the way, the turtle may have encountered swordfish, tuna, and other migrating leatherbacks returning after a successful foraging season off the North American coast.

Some of the turtle's dives sent it plunging into the cold darkness 3,300 feet (1,000 meters) below the ocean surface.

After 647 days of swimming, the animal finally reached the cool waters of the Pacific Northwest—where a feast of jellyfish awaited.

The turtle made this "epic journey spanning tropical and temperate waters of the Pacific just to eat jellyfish off Oregon," said Scott Benson of NOAA's Southwest Fisheries Science Center in Moss Landing, California.

Those must be some really good jellyfish!!!!

February 1, 2008

Tourist Spacehip Unveiled!

Entrepreneur Richard Branson and aircraft designer Burt Rutan unveiled this model of SpaceShipTwo—a shuttle planned to start ferrying tourists into space within a few years—in New York on January 23, 2008.

Within a few years a handful of rich tourists may be blasting into space in a craft that combines the aesthetics of the space shuttle and a corporate jet.

British billionaire Richard Branson and aerospace designer Burt Rutan unveiled a model Wednesday of SpaceShipTwo, the vehicle they hope will take passengers on suborbital joy rides.

"Breathtakingly beautiful," was Branson's assessment of the ship, which is now under construction at a hangar in the Mojave Desert and which may begin test flights as soon as this year.

I don't know that I will ever be privledged enough to ride in such a vehicle, but I have always been attracted to space travel, and I hope that the private sector continues to work in this arena for future generations!

Photo and story courtesy of National Geographic